1. Emotionally unavailable, except when convenient
2. Runs away in times of crisis
3. Beats you or abuses you emotionally (makes you feel guilty when he/she is being unreasonable)
4. Thinks that being an independent person who can pay their own bills is a virtue and a reason to stay
5. Says, "you can't please me" when your pregnant/sick
6. Has a full time job but spends all his/her free time playing video games and watching shows/cartoons/etc...
7. Thinks a partner who asks for faithfulness has unrealistic expectation
8. Blames their partner for starting drama scenes
9. Blames their partner when they themselves have drama scenes
10 Pretty much everything is the their partner's fault
11. Unable to accept responsibility for their own mistakes
12. Throws a tantrum when they don't get their way
13. Only asks to compromise so they can get their way
14. Tells you that your taste in EVERYTHING is dull and far less superior than their own
15. Won't attend the sonogram of first born child
16. Finds partners who are emotionally needy annoying but has no problem being a big baby
17. Everything is about what they're getting out of the relationship
18. Picks a fight, when they realize a relationship is hard work, just so you'll break up with him
19. Blames everyone, except themselves (of course) for having a crappy job + being miserable.
20. Is quick to judge the things you do (especially if they are culturally different)
21. Think they much better at everything, without accepting that everyone is good at different things
22. Mocks your intelligence by pointing out when you make a mistake, followed by "and you say you're smart".
23. Yet minimizes his/her mistakes to avoid embarrassment
24. Says, "I love you" as a joke
25. Asks to have sex with other women/men while your pregnant/sick
26. If you are unable to please them, it's the end of the world... if they're unable to please you; it's no big deal.
27. Thinks love should be conditional... there is no such thing as unconditional love.
28. Wants you to drive 60 miles daily so you can pick them up, bring them to your place, and then drive 'em back home.
29. They finally get a car and make it a point to NEVER visit you, despite you asking a million times (not even as friends) JERKS!
30. A list of pros for this relationship would pretty much be all the things you can do for them
31. Their list of cons for this relationship would include things they don't want to do for you
32. Your job is always easier than theirs
33. Your life is always easier than theirs
34. People are "handed" opportunities they feel should belong to them
35. Posts an ad that says, "would you date this woman"?
