What would you do and what would you miss?

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  Posted by Katrina Sun Jul 26, 2009 5:10pm PDT

  If my boyfriend died, I'll miss his honesty, jokes, presence, smile, eyes, hugs ......

  I don't want to have him or my family to die or even any one of my friends. But we lose people - things never last for ever.

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  Posted by richard Sun Jul 26, 2009 5:12pm PDT

  I DID HAVE SOMEONE WHOM I LOVED WHO DIED IT WAS MY FATHER AND AFTERWARDS YOU MOSTLY FEEL SHOCKED AND SAD BECAUSE YOU REALIZE HOW YOU PUT OFF ALL THE TIMES YOU COULD GO SEE HIM AND EVEN WANTED TOO BUT SOMEHOW JUST NEVER DID YOUR LIFE JUST SEEMS TO TAKE AWAY THE VALUE IN FAMILY AND THEN ITS TO LATE AND AT THAT TIME IT HITS YOU HOW SELFISH AND STUPID MOST OF US ARE AT HOW WE FORGOT FAMILY AND NOW SORROW JUST SITS IN ITS PLACE TILL WE DIE.

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  Posted by JAYBEE BABY Sun Jul 26, 2009 5:43pm PDT

  i lost my grandparents i was really really close to them cause they helped raise me to the gentleman that i'am today they passed away a piece of my heart went with them but u see i finally realized they were only trying to make me a better person even though i got yelled at alotthey were only trying to teach me somethang the thang i miss bout them the most is their love they had for me but i keep their memories alive in my heart which we all should do when we lose someone real close to us we keep their memories alive in our hearts

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  Posted by get with the program Sun Jul 26, 2009 5:50pm PDT

  Everyone in my family that I love (with the exception of my husband) are faithful Christians, so I know that when they die, they will be in paradise with Jesus. All of my grandparents already went to the Lord years ago. I know they are with me in spirit every day. I do miss them, but I know they don't miss me because they're with me, watching over me like angels. If my son ever died before me, which is a possibility since he is in the military, that would be the hardest to have to deal with but he, too, is a faithful born again Christian. Why grieve for those who are no longer with us on earth but who are forever in heavenly paradise? To my family, grieving is a selfish act done out of our own desire to keep the people we love in this realm where we can see and touch them.

  I love God more than I love anybody in my family, including my son. I trust Him, that His will is in our best interests.

  Jesus is with you...ALWAYS.

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  Posted by Aramy Sun Jul 26, 2009 6:27pm PDT

  i think u should think about what they want u to do i dont think they would like to see u unhappy sad. dying is part of life they want u to keep ur head up and move on with ur life to cherrish every datail in ur life and live without regrets. it hard to loose someone but look at it this way they just had a head start to paradise and when its ur turn they wil wait for u. but till that happends keep ur head up and remember they never leave cause now they are part of u, and u will always have them with u. obviously ur going to miss the things they did but try to do the same things they did to u and pass it down to ur love ones. and accept life for wht it is

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