I'm pretty much going out of my mind!!! not knowing where this
relationship is and where it is going. I really have no clue on
what to do next and where this is going.. i posted up a blog awhile
back talking about i dont know what to do next talking about this
crazy situation know i still have no clue where its at!!! i asked
staright up you like me i gotta know if this is somthing or if your
seeing somebody else. she pretty much freaked out got pissed and
told me that if she didn't like we would have never gone out.
since i been a lot less stressed wondering. and i'll be
completly honest here the reason I HAD TO KNOW was because i like
her and had the oppertunity to sleep with other girls but if she
had any feelings for me i would tell them no and go with her and
wait. so after storm calmied and we were cool we we hung out again
then since this has been on and off even with her saying lets take
it slow i pressed and brought her to a family dinner.. which to me
is a bit crazy cause i just dont bring anyone to meet my folks
infact this was the first!!!!
anyway things went well good dinner,good time, and a little bit of
fun at the house after!!! but right when we were about to have sex
she said she wants more out of this then just sex (we pretty much
did every other possible thing but that no details) but is driving
me crazy with not replying to my tex, i know she doesn't reply
to piss me off,she said it. but i'm doing so much here to be a
good guy to here i really dont know what else i can do, i told her,
i bought her so much stuff and food to her work like 5 times (which
really isn't that big a deal only cause its a gym and i'm
going to work out when she's working at pretty much dinner time
so i think its just nice to do) but she dont call me or anything
and only replies once and awhile. i really want to lock her down
but dont know when the proper time to say or make this happen i
dont want to push and loose her i just want to know if and when
this is ligit, i mean she does talk about things long term like the
next time or next year when we or other words that suggest this is
going to work. and listen i'm not a perv or anything kinda
freak but iLOVE SEX i mean love sex and LOVE pleasing a girl
in any way i can ANYWAY!!!!!!!!!!! but this waiting and not knowing
if i'm going to keep with her is killing me. i think i should
wait and see three more dates and say this is it were toghther
is that a good move? of should i wait it out and just let it
happen? do you see this going somewhere? is it worth the wait? and
please belive i dont have sex problems i just love sex i'm
going crazy here help a brother out!!!!!!!!!
where is this going?????????????
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Posted by Tue Nov 17, 2009 8:46am PST
Report Abusesounds like she is playing you... Its funny.., guys love women like her, but when women like me who is straight forth and honest come along, you want to play her.. Just tell her that she is sending too many mixed vibes and if she is not going 2b in relationship with you which involves sex, that you are going to date other women...!!!!
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Posted by Tue Nov 17, 2009 10:26am PST
Report AbuseMan, I have been in that situation twice already and yes it sucks very much. Here is what I learned 1) She is just not that into you, she likes you and wants to please you and not hurt your feelings, but it just isnt going to work out and she may be seeing other guys you dont know about, The 2) part to this is to wait and she what she does if she doesnt text or call you or send an email in three to four days, drop her cause all its going to do is hurt you in the long run, also during those three to four days of not talking, talk to the other woman and go out, you dont have to have sex with them, yes we all like sex and enjoy it very much, but hey going out with a hot lady around town is nice also. One door opens another door closes. Dont stress or worry about it, have fun while you can
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Posted by Wed Nov 18, 2009 11:27am PST
Report AbuseLMFAO.... Dude WTF.... She see's and knows the many things your doing... You got to learn to play it cool.... step 1) Don't give her an ultimatum like.." If we're not together I'm going to date other females." Hint hint women don't like that.. you will become a jerk in their eyes... you can still be friends but you will still be a jerk... step 2) STOP answering all her calls and Texts let some of them go to voice mail and texts not reply... your not ignoring her.. what your doing is show her your time is valuable.... step 3) We got to separate you from the rest of the pack of men in her life... We need you to stand out from the crowd... how we do this is simple.... what is her favorite food or artist.. etc.... once we know what her favorite things are.. we can begin... like if her favorite artist... buy 2 tickets up close to the stage... then tell her these exact word... " I'm going to this music concert mentioning the her favorite artist.... I wish I had someone to go with me"... don't tell her it's for her... just play it cool... then ask her would she like to go???...
I can go on and on teaching how to get hitch and have any woman fall in love with you....
If you really sound advice hit me back ......
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Posted by Thu Nov 19, 2009 3:46am PST
Report Abusealright since this was wrote a few things happend, first i sent her a tex tonight and she replyed right back! tuesday i saw her asked how her day was yata yata she told me it was s---y cause she was studying all night for a test that got cancelled then had a ton of stuff to do be fore work. i said i hope it gets better she said it did since i was there then came out for a bit before she went home to study. i know she is always in the books double major in two hard subjects and 18 credits this semester. bit she seems very gittie last two days i saw her maybe she liked the "down skill" i had.. but for real i think i'm pretty much just stressed for no reason, this is the first girl in a long time i'm making real effort i mean i tried a couple times but ended up under some other girl. but this time i cut all conects and going for just one
so danta what should be my next move? btw theres alot to the story this is actually the second time we dated
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Posted by Thu Nov 19, 2009 4:56am PST
Report AbuseWhy play games? Live in the now and take the relationship at face value. Good grief... take care of yourself first because THE MOST IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP YOU WILL HAVE IS WITH YOURSELF!! Don't stress over the rest.
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Posted by Thu Nov 19, 2009 9:16am PST
Report AbuseOk your next move... is to become more interested in what she is learning.... Have her explain what she is learning and really listen and ask questions but not to many....
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Posted by Fri Nov 20, 2009 3:14am PST
Report Abuserealize thats a great thing to do dante and i done that but its a bit harder then you think her majors are computer enganering and math with a minor in international bussiness, i'm almost done with my third degree but my first one was culinary, second was hotel but scated through because i was a star athlete and this one a monkey with no eyes can do,
to some up her shes very smart, a personal trainer, loves video games, very sexy and acts very laid back non prissy..
me not the smartes guy with the books, i can talk, i box about to turn pro in march, dont play a video game ever rather be running around.
see my real problem is i never been in a real relationship ever i can pretty much if i want sleep with a girl i think at this point i just want to lock her down, this is the second time we dated to btw.. i dont want want to loose her again the first time it didnt end bad it just kinda was done we stopped talking, she's every guys dream cool hot and smart, how do i make her my dream? i did get a big step today i told she makes me happier then i ever been she said she wished she had more time, she also meet my friends girl who just moved here and told me to give her,her number. so i did but worried a bit didnt metion before but she's bi openly about i know she just became your dream i scored a big one her i don't want to f--- up, maybe this explains more about my extream nervous who wouldn't be with perfect infront of them!!!!!!!
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