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Saturday, December 5, 2009

Who Are You?

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Many times, and especially when it comes to love and relationships, women end sentences in this very well used phrase: "You don't know me!"  Whether it's the guy being an idiot or you feeling he's not paying attention to detail, this comes up alot.  Well ladies, here's your chance!  Search deep, think...and describe yourself as if you are meeting someone for the very first time and you want them, just on description alone, to get a very well-rounded, good idea, of who you are so there are no questions asked in the future.  Guys, you can do this too because sometimes our wonderful ladies fail to understand us too.  Heh...
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  • Krsnaknows's Avatar
    Posted by Krsnaknows Fri Jul 18, 2008 11:20am PDT

    Yes I have heard that catch phrase! better than that is 'i dont know why I said that!!!

    Anyway thats what I think I did!

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  • Wendy's Avatar
    Posted by Wendy Fri Jul 18, 2008 11:28am PDT

    I AM ME AND YOUR NOT!

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  • joshsmom's Avatar
    Posted by joshsmom Fri Jul 18, 2008 11:38am PDT

    I am the funny girl who has guy friends who wonder why she can't find the right man. I am the one who can whip up a pound cake from scratch for PTA meetings or church socials. I am the friend who when you call at 3 a.m will listen intently as she wipes the gunk from her eyes and says "No really it's okay I was up"

    Who am I? I am the one who gets the short straw and the grunt work and does it with a smile. I am the one who everyone leans on but does not ask for anything in return. I am the rock who has everyone's back.

    I am an overwhelmed single parent (of 3 boys, not by choice but by circumstance). I have a strength that amazes me at times.

    All I want out of life is peace of mind and a calm life free of drama. I like responding to blogs and spending time with my kids. We laugh talk and shop together. I worry about their future b/c they were raised by a single parent with no paternal help.

    I am insecure and confident. I am weak and vulnerable but strong and bold. I am a social butterfly that likes to be left alone sometimes.

    If you ever hear me say" You don't know me" It's b/c there are times when I do not know myself either.

    This is a great topic and causes alot of introspection. Thanks for something so provacative to respond to.

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  • VirtuousPrincess's Avatar
    Posted by VirtuousPrincess Fri Jul 18, 2008 11:43am PDT

    What's the obejective? Are you trying to get hookups? Looks like that to me...Hmmmmmmm

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  • Kat's Avatar
    Posted by Kat Fri Jul 18, 2008 11:43am PDT

    Ha! I am the most complicated person I know! What I can say for sure is that I am loyal until I am crossed, I don't appreciate contradictions whatsoever and I WILL tell you when you're doing just that, I'm pretty outspoken unless I know my words will cause too big of a fight and then I'll just back down because I'm probably too tired to care. I hate how gorgeous women are these days and truly aspire to be one of those women within my lifetime, even though I think I'm missing some of those "classy" elements. I want to be persued no matter what stage of the relationship I'm in, I love to be complimented and doted on but will never really make anyone feel they HAVE to do these thins. I'll simply encourage it. I love carbohydrates which is my biggest flaw and I hate how bad they are for me. I'm genuinly a nice person but my temper has flared more than once for reason's I'm still not sure about. I hate double-standards, don't tell me I "Can't" and I prefer to debate anything, anytime, anyplace. I like sex and I like it often enough to feel satisified but I don't want it so much that I get bored. I want to be caressed and played with and I want to be reminded that when I'm naked and really into you, I am the sexiest woman in the world. I want chivalry and courtesy and protection from my mate. If you won't stand up for me, get lost. I'm too strong of a woman to take on a wuss. I like surprises and teddy bears and to feel like a kid as often as possible. I must get my way every so often or else I simply get pissed and I will only give you the energy you give me so if you want to be a jerk, it's coming back your way. I have insecurities and no, you can't be friends with your ex. I don't trust women and whether my mate will do anything or not is beside the point. I don't want to have to worry or think about it so if you're in a position that you think I'd be uncomfortable with, removing yourself from it is the smart thing to do. I could go on, but I'll stop there.

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  • Alex's Avatar
    Posted by Alex Fri Jul 18, 2008 11:56am PDT

    I am what Jerry Seinfeld referred to as a guys girl. A super funny person who is cute but not gorgeous. Smart but not a rocket scientist. Mean but not bitchy. Just right below the radar. You don't know me would be my default answer for when I don't have an answer. Mostly because you were spot on...

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  • c's Avatar
    Posted by c Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:05pm PDT

    lmao@right below the radar...haha! That was a funny episode....heh

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  • c's Avatar
    Posted by c Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:08pm PDT

    and Kat...bravo for you! If ANYONE misunderstood you on this one? I would be thoroughly shocked! haha....awesome stuff! you rule. =]

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  • springtime's Avatar
    Posted by springtime Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:20pm PDT

    They call me " The Breeze". And that pretty much says it all.

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  • c's Avatar
    Posted by c Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:50pm PDT

    *throws a coconut at springtime*

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