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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

why wont she show me

ok im a soldier in iraq and my gf wont "give me a show" if u know what i mean. alli asked is for her to get on her cam topless and she wont. is that wrong for me to ask? im  lucky if she even gets on line to talk to me some weeks. mabe i dont deserve it?

i dont see the difference if i take pics of her whean im home or if she gives me a cam show.  oh and weve been going out for almost 5 years now!! u would think she would trust me not to show he off to all my freinds i dont do that s---. shes mine all mine i dont share.


in some of the comments i been told to grow up. but the way i see it. is it wrong for me to want to see my gf insted of some ramdon w---- off some porn site? i thank not!!  i know what some of u are thanking that i dont need to get myself off but it is a great stress relief and lord knows iraq is stressful. not only the factim in a war zone but the fact i dont know whats going on at home.
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  • dANIELLEP's Avatar
    Posted by dANIELLEP Fri Oct 9, 2009 1:53pm PDT

    Well sir, some women don't like showing their bodies off like that. Think from her perspective, she hasn't seen you in how long and your asking her to get on a cam topless. I wouldn't do it either if I was in her position. Just asking her was probably a bad idea. Its hard over there huh? Its hard over here in the USA as well. Just give her a break you know.

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  • urassismine2's Avatar
    Posted by urassismine2 Fri Oct 9, 2009 2:51pm PDT

    Why?..You've got to be kidding right? The girl friend,..the potential wife, and mother of your children,..maybe..the woman that you love so-so,across airwaves, with information that you don't have any idea of who may be viewing that information, bared raw naked, for your and possibly unknown eyes, to look at. So you can do what, continents away? You get it now? Imagine what she's thinking about your request..You gotta make better decisions. I mean, now, she might be thinking about making better decisions about how someone is going to respect the woman in her, soldier or not!

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  • leah's Avatar
    Posted by leah Sat Oct 10, 2009 10:32am PDT

    if she has been your woman for a while, i say why not? maybe just not show her face. i think its better than wanting to check out other women. its kinda nice that you want to see her instead of being satisfied with strange porn-boobs. its the least she could do for you being so far away!

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  • leah's Avatar
    Posted by leah Sat Oct 10, 2009 10:33am PDT

    if she has been your woman for a while, i say why not? maybe just not show her face. i think its better than wanting to check out other women. its kinda nice that you want to see her instead of being satisfied with strange porn-boobs. its the least she could do for you being so far away!

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  • Super Abuelita's Avatar
    Posted by Super Abuelita Sun Oct 11, 2009 9:40am PDT

    Some women are just not comfortable doing ANYTHING on camera that could later "bite her in her butt."

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  • Alyssa's Avatar
    Posted by Alyssa Sun Oct 11, 2009 9:43am PDT

    Seriously,

    Shes a fool - while most men would step out, use pictures or thoughts of other women to ------, you are asking HER for her pic!! I think your awesome, and you wouldn't have to ask me twice! If she loved you, she would want you happy and taken care of! She should send pictures of her WHOLE body, naked, using toys,holding your picture using toys, masterbating, the whole 9 yards, anything to get you going my friend........

    Relax - and do what you have to do to get by my friend, we are thinking of you, praying for you...i hope all gooes well

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  • Sc's Avatar
    Posted by Sc Sun Oct 11, 2009 9:47am PDT

    This guy (original poster) comes across as so pathetically immature, it's not even funny. You should be going to some nudie bar if that's your level of immaturity, rather than asking a good woman to act like some pole dancer. Grow up man!

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  • Gina's Avatar
    Posted by Gina Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:57am PDT

    Sorry this is one of the reasons why I have so little respect for men

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  • Denise's Avatar
    Posted by Denise Mon Oct 26, 2009 9:53am PDT

    My fiance is also in Iraq. I have an understanding of what you need and I also understand her fear of not wanting to do it. A web cam is something I also would say no too. I did, however,allow my fiance to take intimate pics, download them onto a cd and take them with him to load onto his laptop. This is our second Iraq deployment and I have alot of trust in him. I am soon to be his wife and I have trust that he will be the only ones viewing these pictures. However, I did not allow any face shots incase of something happening to our relationship at a later time. Try compromising with her but give up on the web cam. You never know who else is around. P.S.....He also knows that if I ever found out another man viewed these that I would personally fly to Iraq to shoot his ass. The enemy would be the least of his worries...LOL

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