When my sweetheart and I started seeing each other, I knew that he
had had a very painful breakup with a woman he had been seeing
for 8 years.( This woman is also the mother of his only child) I
confirmed the things he told me about her like that she is very
selfish and likes to hurt anyone she is in contact with...on
purpose. She cheated on him constantly and had abortions whenever
she got pregnant, and whether or not they were his, God only knows.
In general, she was just a very hurtful woman that lied and
cheated. Like I said, I have confirmed what he told me through
people that know both him and her. As a result of this relationship
with her, he has the misconception that all women lie, cheat, and
can tell him nothing is going on.....with a straight face. He has
made comments to me that he worries when I go to work that guys are
hitting on me, and that he hopes i'm not cheating on him. I
tell him that not all women are like his ex and don't lump us
all into the same group as her. I also tell him that only time will
heal the wounds in his heart and I do my best to be patient.
Sometimes, though, I am really hurt by the insinuation that I would
even consider cheating on him. We tell each other all the time
" I love you" and for the first time in MY life, I can
say it and really mean it.
My question to you is: Is it true that time heals all wounds or is
this insecurity something that lasts forever?
I would love to hear a guy's opinion on this too
Will this go on forever?
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