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Report AbuseAsk her to talk to her husband,she must tell how she feels about the whole situation and may thers a way for both of them to sort this thing out as they both want to have the baby, he must not act as is the wife only pregnant.
8 Steps to true forgiveness
1. Think about what happened.
2. Acknowledge all your feelings of sadness.
3. Express what you feel. Write a letter or in a journal, talk o a friend or simply allow yourself to feel everything that you feel.
4. Accept responsibility for your own emotions. Although you were wronged only you can decide to stop feeling angry.
5. Talk to the other person about the behaviour that upset you. Tell that person how it made you feel.
6. Try to understand the other person’s point of view. You can do this even if you don’t really agree with it.
7. Now you can rebuild trust in the relationship. Discus and agree on acceptable future behaviour.
8. Make the decision to forgive. Communicate your forgiveness to the other person. Now let go completely and move on
Thats the only way to a succesfull marriage. Tell your friend to be patient.
Report AbuseHow quick most Men forget those promises they've made to thier partners.I cant eat my cake and still have it. To be a loving husband is not to be a very active sex engine and all that, but it's about being considerate all the time. Moreso, couples should always try to know each other's sexual capacity before planning to have a baby. If am willing to be a father and it's going to cost me my sex life for months, so be it. Where do you want to place the person carrying the baby. HE NEEDS TO BE CONSIDERATE.
Report Abusei hate this kind of man, they are not loyal and maybe did not love you at all, only love your body.
that is a pity for your life.
Report Abusei hate this kind of man, they are not loyal and maybe did not love you at all, only love your body.
that is a pity for your life.
Report AbuseHow sad that his true colours are only becoming obvious now that she is preggers. This man never loved her and I am not sure he is ready to be a father- he is selfish and inconsiderate. Such cases do not get better, only worse.
Report AbuseNow that people aren't brought up with religion they aren't taught moral standards. I feel that her husband has not been taught any morals by his family. I would tell her relitives on his side and see if they can talk some sense into him. This attitude will only cause resentment and extreme anxiety. She could end up hating her baby when it arrives. If it was me and I never got any help from his family I would leave him and not let the grand parents see the child. The answer is to him is NO you can not stray. Not now, or when the child is growing up.
Report AbuseThe answer is not only a resounding NO, but what a jerk to even ask! That marriage is in trouble. They need to seek counseling NOW, not wait for the baby to be born. This is a symptom of a bigger problem. I feel sorry for the woman and her child.
Report AbuseI personally wouldn't mind, but if it bothers her why doesn't she suggest something else like offering to give him oral instead.
Report AbuseI was the "other woman" in such a relationship.
I felt bad for her but I was too into the trill of the fling.
It's over now and they're back together.
I am now in a relationship. and would try anything to keep my man satisfied.
Report AbuseWHAT?!?!?!?!?! I would have to hurt him. OMG! That poor woman. On the otherhand though, there are ways to make sex more comfortable during pregnancy. I had sex all the way up until I gave birth. Anyway I think he needs to apologize and she needs to give in a little. If she is only seven months and having a hard time, it is going to be a long haul for her and for him.
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