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This question comes up because we are both married and we both have families. We are not trying to "hook up" or anything of that nature. We talk about our families, work and our hobbies and joke around. I really like this guy as a person and a friend and I think that he thinks the same about me.
So what I'm asking is, "Is it okay to have on-line friends of the oppisite sex even if you are married?" It's not like I am trying to hide the fact that I am friends with this man because I talk about him to my friends and family and refer to him as my friend. My husband knows that I have an online guy friend and doesn't think that it's a big deal. I'm not sure if my friend has told his wife about me but that is his own personal choice.
I guess I'm starting to wonder if it's okay because you usually only hear of people on dating sites etc and not necessarily friendship sites. Also I kind of get stange looks when I tell someone about my guy friend that I met online that lives in Washington. Sometimes you would think that I just told them that I had sex with this guy with the reaction but we do not even live in the same city. I live on the East coast and he lives on the West coast and we only speak through instant messenger.
So what do you think? Can we be friends?
