Win When Mate Cheats

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  Posted by djgreetings.com Sat Jul 25, 2009 7:01pm PDT

  My advice, get out of the relationship. But it's tough if you have children though.

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  Posted by Lovable Sat Jul 25, 2009 7:10pm PDT

  If you want your spouse to feel special with you, you need to do more than rote displays of affection. What you will want to do is combine ways of showing your spouse how much you care about him or her.

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  Posted by J Montana™ Sat Jul 25, 2009 7:17pm PDT

  My Ex never cheated when I was married. That was not our problem.

  It was his temper and anger. I divorced him to get away from the hurt.

  Great post DJ.

  I will look forward to reading the comments.

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  Posted by ifparkman Sat Jul 25, 2009 7:18pm PDT

  dump cheating spouses.

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  Posted by micha Sat Jul 25, 2009 7:27pm PDT

  Instead of simply giving your spouse a peck on the cheek before you go to work and saying "I love you" before you fall asleep, you might skip the kiss in the morning and leave her a love note instead.

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  Posted by Jeriemy Sat Jul 25, 2009 7:36pm PDT

  Don't put him out or leave him - yet. Instead of your first move, putting your husband out or leaving him should be your last resort. You may eventually decide to do this, but for now, it's the worst thing you can do.

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  Posted by Micah Louvelle Sat Jul 25, 2009 7:45pm PDT

  As long as you're still together, you can keep your finger on the pulse of his affair and gather some much-needed facts.

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  Posted by JC Sat Jul 25, 2009 7:58pm PDT

  Focus on forgiving. This is a big topic! But to quickly put this in perspective, forgiveness is NOT giving permission. It is not letting someone "off the hook." In fact, forgiveness is not even primarily for the other person. It is for you, so that you do not have to carry the pain around with you.

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  Posted by Mr and Mrs Smith Sat Jul 25, 2009 8:06pm PDT

  A friend of mine recently found out her husband cheated on her many years ago and never told her. I was able to have a long conversation with him and he was telling me even though the affair stopped, the thought processes, the secrets and all that junk that goes with it was still in the head.

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  Posted by simfelicity Sat Jul 25, 2009 8:13pm PDT

  cheating husbands? normal... cheating wife?absurd... how can it be?i mean if u have a very healthy relationship with ur husband there's no reason for a wife to cheat, unless she is really promiscuous

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