Love + Sex
Saturday, September 6, 2008
Wouldn't It Be Fun to Sleep With Someone Else?
In DivorcingDaze 62, Laurie & Laurie want to know...What can't you live without? Some politicians can't seem to live without a second family. Ya can't live without milk for the kids, dog food, and gas, despite the climbing prices. Some people can't live without Google, but there's a lot to be said for human search engines. And, the headline question, "Wouldn't it be fun to sleep with someone else?" Go ahead, you know you want to...
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Posted by annabelle Thu May 22, 2008 9:51am PDT
Whether it is ok to cheat or not is not the question here. It is not ok. If you don't want to be in your relationship anylonger get out. Then you have the freedom to sleep with anyone and everyone you wish. No one person can fulfill every need you have. So have frienships and realize that in life there are sacrifices you make for the things you have, including relationships. We all need to grow up and have a bit of self control.
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Posted by spiritualguide_2007 Thu May 22, 2008 10:37am PDT
Sleeping is not sex! I have slept with my Mother, Daughter, Grandmother, and a few friends. So if you want to sleep with someone, I would make sure they didn't "snore" first ! About having sex. Let your "conscience " be your guide, and do unto others as you would have them do unto you ! Sex is sacred between two people because it can produce children, which is a miracle from God, and a huge responsibility in this life and the next !
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Posted by instrumentjamlord Fri May 23, 2008 12:55am PDT
Sure, it'd be FUN all right....
It's what comes afterwards that's a real wet blanket. But hey, if you like tears, recrimination, screaming fights, sleeping on the couch, permanently ruined sex with your now-freaked-out spouse, enforced therapy sessions, dividing up your assets and arm-wrestling over holidays and hiccups in the shared child custody calendar as much as you like sleeping around...
sure, why not?
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Posted by Terry Marsh Fri May 23, 2008 8:19am PDT
We are always stimulated by our fantasies, but it is maturity and intellect which allows us to distinguish between making good decisions and sub-coming to primal urges.
I'm not even married, but I don't sleep with everyone that I meet (and that's coming from a man). I've learned through experience that a little discernment now can eliminate a world of grief later.
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Posted by Coffeebandit Sun May 25, 2008 6:19pm PDT
No, it wouldn't be fun at all. For one thing I wouldn't want my husband to sleep around. When you do wrong, you pay the conquences afterward and it's not worth it.
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