Finding out you are dating the wrong guy can really be devastating if you are already a few months into your relationship. You put so much time and effort into the relationship only to figure out that he's not the one for you. It is very important to notice red flags in the very beginning of your relationship so that you can avoid devastation later on. To make things a little easier for you, here are three signs you might be dating the wrong guy.
The two of you don't talk that much
If the two of you are already a couple months into the relationship and haven't had a meaningful conversation yet, you've got a problem. It is important to be able to connect on a deeper emotional level with him. If your conversations just consist of what sex position you want to try next or what restaurant you want to eat at next, it is a sign you two don't have much of an emotional connection.
Your goals are much different than his
One of the biggest signs your relationship probably won't work out is that your goals are much different than his. For example, if he wants to have a big family someday, but the idea of changing diapers freaks you out, there is an issue. Differing in big life goals can eventually tear you two apart.
He doesn't get along with your friends
Although your guy doesn't have to best buddies with all your friends, it is necessary for him to get along with them. After all, you probably spend a lot of time with your friends, so you want your guy to at least tolerate being around them. It will eventually get frustrating having to leave your friends out of your activities just to please your guy.
If you find out that you are dating the wrong guy, don't feel too bad. It's normal to make mistakes when dating; just think of them as learning experiences.More from Katya Gordeeva: