• Think about what you actually don’t like about your daughter’s wardrobe. Is it really a specific sparkly midriff you object to, or are you more concerned about how your girl will be perceived depending on what she chooses to wear? If it’s the latter, consider talking to her about this issue in an honest way. If you need help getting the conversation started, parenting books on raising girls may offer a jumping off point. Trends constantly evolve so don’t let a disagreement about a fad close the lines of communication.
• Remember what it was like to be her age. Could anyone have told you not to pay attention to Madonna’s rock star hair and fishnets? Making bad outfit choices is almost a rite of passage. She’ll eventually look back and realize you were right, just as you may regret sky-high shoulder pads.
• Don’t make your daughter your feminist platform. Objecting to the sexualization of young girls is valid, but make sure to put it into personal terms your tween can understand. A daughter doesn’t want to feel like she is a soap box for issues she hasn’t even learned about in school yet.
• Go shopping with your daughter. A shopping excursion will not only be a bonding experience, but it also allows you to offer input on her choices much like a girlfriend would. She’s much more likely to listen to your advice if you package it in a gentle and constructive way. Try stores like Nordstrom, Target, and Macy’s, which have vast juniors sections and styles specifically made for teens. Urban Outfitters, Gap, and Old Navy also offer trendy looks for teens that moms can get behind.
• Offer alternatives. Showing your daughter that you know a thing or two about pop culture may just earn you some serious cool-mom points. If your girl is gaga over teen dramas like "Gossip Girl" and "Glee", suggest a Blair-inspired headband, a school-girl-chic plaid outfit, or a fashionably preppy look ala Glee club. If she loves reality TV, she'll probably die over "The Hills" star LC' s clothing line or stylist Rachel Zoe's top picks. And luckily Twilight has not only offered endless entertainment for daughters and mothers alike, but also teen styles that are as alluring and timeless as the story itself. Instead of just saying no, point her in the direction of Miley Cyrus’s and Max Azria’s clothing line for Walmart. Many items are on-trend to satisfy your wannabe pop star’s styles, but appropriate enough to be mom-friendly.
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