The five best gifts I've ever received: What are yours?

    • A vintage bike
    • A good camera
    • Expensive stockings
    • A favorite book signed by a favorite author
    • An I.O.U. for a romantic night
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A vintage bike

I've lived in cities for the past 15 years and there's nothing better to get around on than a cute old vintage bike. This gift made me jump up and down.

Even though Shine is about to embark upon an eight-week-long gift guide extravaganza for the masses (how magazine-y of us, don't you think?), we know that presents (especially the good ones) are incredibly personal and specific. The greatest gift exchanges require thoughtfulness, listening, and really understanding who another person is and what they like and need—that's what I always strive for in giving and it's the only thing I hope for in receiving. These experiences have little to do with what you spend or how you wrap it up. They're more centered, though it sounds cheesy, in a spirit of generosity and in that feeling of excitement and anticipation you get right before someone you love opens a present that you think is perfect for them. With that in mind, we could no more tell you exactly what to buy your sister-in-law than you could tell us what to get our grandmothers, but, our hope for this guide is to help you with time-saving tricks, money-saving resources and some really good, inspiring ideas along the way. Ask us questions, share your stories—we want to know! For example: What's the best gift you ever received? Check out my top five in the slideshow above.

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  • Am's Avatar
    Posted by Am Wed Nov 5, 2008 9:10pm PST

    In no particular order:

    1. My ipod.

    2. A wonderful piece of art by M. Bosetti.

    3. Bath salts that smell like peppermint.

    4. My cream and red leather kate spade purse

    5. My betty crocker cook book. :)

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  • KT's Avatar
    Posted by KT Thu Nov 6, 2008 8:55am PST

    I totally got my mom last year for christmas a "vinage bike" just like the one in the picture.. exect it was a pretty pink. I had done a little research on it and actually found one at a local Target!!

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  • LydiaMarie's Avatar
    Posted by LydiaMarie Thu Nov 6, 2008 5:30pm PST

    Last year I asked my parents adopt a family in need rather than buying me gifts (a annoymous gift giving program where less fortunate families make a list of things they want or need which is then donated by the person or people who "adopt" them) and they asked me to do the same for them. Nothing was as touching or meaningful as the thank you card I got from the family I adopted. Christmas day my family and I cried tears of joy that we were so lucky to have each other and to be able to reach out a hand to someone in need. I will never know the people we bought gifts and clothes for, but I can only imagine the joy of the youngest boy getting the Poleroid camera he asked for. That was my best Christmas ever.

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  • Disgruntled's Avatar
    Posted by Disgruntled Fri Nov 7, 2008 9:45am PST

    Two bests gifts ever...getting engaged on Christmas day 16 years ago and my husband coming back from a long deployment just in time for Christmas. We've been apart for every holiday at least once, so any holiday where he's home is extra special.

    My husband did once look into getting me a first edition copy of my favorite book. However, my favorite book is Pride and Prejudice and a 1st edition costs around £90,000 so needless to say that didn't happen!

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  • bear's Avatar
    Posted by bear Fri Nov 7, 2008 4:18pm PST

    1. The year my 2 boys got cowboy jackets from my husband-to-be. I was a single mom with very little money

    2. the poem I got from my youngest child the first mother's day after her first child was born.

    3. a teddy bear

    4. My mother's calls almost every day the year before she died unexpectedly.

    5. my children, my grandchildren, my Aunt Alice and my husband. all a special gift

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  • Emily's Avatar
    Posted by Emily Mon Nov 10, 2008 3:59am PST

    The best present is one I gave myself--I adopted to kittens from a shelter eleven years ago using part of my Christmas bonus from work. I had been feeling a little down, but they picked me right up! They're my best buddies.

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  • Constellation's Avatar
    Posted by Constellation Mon Nov 10, 2008 1:54pm PST

    In no particular order:

    -when I was in fourth grade, I wanted a pair of silly white patent leather cowboy boots with little silver tassels on the sides. Being a suburbanite private school kid, this made no sense, but my dad got them for me after telling me 'no' repeatedly.

    -when my parents celebrated their 25th anniversary with a renewal of vows, my mom gave my sister and I strings of pearls to wear to the ceremony. I wore them on my wedding day, and what is wonderful is they are now a keepsake I can hand down to my children someday, and them to their children.

    -my now-husband-then boyfriend decorated his first acoustic guitar with the words of 1 Corinthians 13 (the verses about love) all over the exterior and wrote our names and the year he gave it to me. It was sentimental, because it was a childhood possession, and now it sits in our home. :)

    -my best girlfriend made me a box full of items that represented parts of our friendship (we've been friends for 18 years), and each had a little card detail on it, and she gave it to me as her wedding present to me right before I got married.

    -my mom-in-law gave me a scrapbook she made of all of my husband's childhood artwork. I am an artist, so to have her give me these little keepsakes of her little boy from all those years let me really see how much she loves me and knows me.

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  • MrsKlingonPasadena's Avatar
    Posted by MrsKlingonPasadena Wed Nov 19, 2008 9:52am PST

    I like the I O U for a romantic night. More husbands and boyfriends should do that. It is hard to keep romance in relationships and I think all women would like to be treated like the "only woman in the world" for one night. If only my husband were reading this!!

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  • tigger's Avatar
    Posted by tigger Mon Jan 5, 2009 7:24pm PST

    1. The gift of life

    2. Family, and our many gatherings over the years (always best at Christmas)

    3. My first grandchild (born 12/22/04)

    4. The spirit of Christmas: that almost indefinible combination of fellowship, good will, warmth and generosity

    5. Christmas memories. That's really more than one gift, because I have so many good ones.

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The greatest gift exchanges require thoughtfulness, listening, and really understanding who another person is and what they like and need—that's what I always strive for in giving and it's the only thing I hope for in receiving.