Monday, November 30, 2009

Here's how I plan to quit smoking. Would it work for you?

Every time I've ever tried to quit smoking, I have simply ground out the very last cigarette in my very last pack and then I was quit, and I didn't smoke again. Until I started smoking again. Sometimes a day later, or a week later or a month later, and a couple of times I managed more than a few months, a handful of them, a year or so. I have quit smoking for as many as four years, before taking it back up with enthusiasm and gusto. I have a lot of gusto, when it comes to smoking. And I always go back to it.

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I would rather do this on my own. Just set the pack down and walk away. Except, when I do, I always walk away telling myself that maybe I can smoke again later, if I am good, on special occasions, and when the sky is blue. And I always keep my promises. So clearly, quitting on my own and quitting without help is not something that sticks for me. I need a program! A cessation program! Maybe one that involves drugs and gums and shots and a watch that is swung gently before me, pendulum-like, in a dark room while a man in glasses with a little beard soothingly invites me to go into a deep trance during which he will reprogram my brain and fix me right up, good as new.

But maybe that is a lot of effort and will require a lot of planning and resources, and I can just turn to the Internet to see how I am supposed to quit smoking. Google "quit smoking," and you get some terrifying results. Many of them insist that you are DOOMED TO FAILURE unless you USE THEIR GREAT PLAN! Some of them involve forums, and signing up for modules. The one I have finally chosen involves an acronym. And the reason I chose it is because acronyms make me happy. I will not regret this decision, I think. Acronyms, man. Okay, let's quit.

So the acronym--it is START, and here is how it goes:
 
  • S = Set a quit date.
Okay! I can do that. I quit today.

  • T = Tell family, friends, and coworkers that you plan to quit.
Hey, everybody! I plan to quit, today. Please slap me mightily if you see me begin to crave nicotine.

  • A = Anticipate and plan for the challenges you'll face while quitting.
I anticipate that it is going to suck. Not only that, but it is going to suck a lot. I anticipate that I will be filled with rage, and a sense of overwhelming unfairness and the feeling that I am very cross that I cannot continue to smoke freely and without consequences. How am I going to plan for these challenges? I will probably whine a lot. It's a gift I have! Maybe I will also enjoy lollipops (a lot) and every time it sucks particularly a lot, I will buy myself a pair of shoes. (Smokers worry about getting pudgy if they quit, but continuing to smoke is actually associated with more belly fat in women.)

  • R = Remove cigarettes and other tobacco products from your home, car, and work.
Can I remove them by smoking them? No? Fine.

  • T = Talk to your doctor about getting help to quit.
Does that include valium? I bet it does! This quitting thing is going to be AWESOME. I am calling my doctor today!

Okay, this seems maybe a little too easy, this plan. It also seems like it is pretty much what I have done each time I have tried to quit, except without the fancy acronym. What is going to make it stick, this time? The government has some ideas for me, and to my snotty, cynical surprise, they are really good ideas--distraction, a change in routine, talking to other people who are trying to quit, even 1-800 numbers. I can call a 1-800 number if I have to. Today I'm just going to try walking a different route from work and practice not immediately snaking my pack out of my pocket the moment I step out of the office. I won't have a pack left. Soon I won't be smoking.

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  • Habanero♥™'s Avatar
    Posted by Habanero♥™ Fri Nov 28, 2008 12:32pm PST

    Ann: April first I quit a 2 pack a day, 40 year habit. I bought 2 packs of Newport's and smoked my last cigarette without knowing it would be my last. I put the packs on my night stand and left them for 1 week unsmoked. I did it just the opposite of you:

    S Snub out the last cigarette I will ever smoke.

    T Tell no one you quit. Let them notice. My husband realized 1 week later when he ran out.

    A Ask for no help. It is just another crutch and reason to fail.

    R Remember what is more important than cigarettes. My list was vast.

    T Temptation is a sign of weakness. Who wins? The tobacco industry or- me, my kids, my

    health, my looks, my sense of taste and smell, my smell, my car smell, my lungs, being a

    grandmother, watching my last son graduate from college, the heart ache of burying two

    friends in their late forties, my blood pressure, banking $2200.00 so far~~~~~.

    The hardest thing I have ever done in my life. So difficult that 2 weeks after quitting I ended up in the emergency room with blood pressure so high that I was within minutes of a stroke. My body was so used to my habit that it shut itself down. My blood pressure is normal now and I will celebrate 8 months free December 1st. I will never smoke again. Every friend I have smokes in front of me as does my husband. I tell myself every once in a while, I am so much stronger than that pack of rettes.

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  • DeAnn's Avatar
    Posted by DeAnn Thu Jan 8, 2009 12:19pm PST

    I quit smoking by cutting back slowly over 6 months. It was hell. The thing that really helped me was realizing that it was within my power not to start up again. I would actually have to go to a store, ask for a specific pack of cigarettes, show my ID, and pay much more for them than I could afford. I have not smoked in 4 years and rarely do I ever desire to. When I'm stressed or upset, even after the death of not one, but two loved ones recently, the idea that I'd have to make that purchase in order to start up again makes me so aware that it's in my control not to smoke.

    My husband could never kiss a smoker, much less make love to one. I work at a hospital and hardly anyone I know smokes at all (except my mother, but she lives 500 miles away). So, the temptation is only in my mind. I can't just steal one or bum one or be offered one.

    Living in an area that bans smoking inside public buildings has helped as well. I think this keeps the temptation down just that much more because I used to smoke right after eating, and being in the non-smoking area of a restaurant and still being able to inhale nicotine from the smoking section gave me the jitters for a day or two.

    I hope you can quit for good. It's not impossible and if you need a program, pick one that works for your personality and that really motivates you. What motivated me was the fact that I met a wonderful guy who I'm now married to.

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  • Pichouette's Avatar
    Posted by Pichouette Thu Jan 8, 2009 12:30pm PST

    That's awesome! I am so young and I smoke. I used to smoke a half a pack or so a day. Now I find myself hating the taste in my mouth and the smell of the smoke itself. For instance in the morning I hate smelling smoke. Actually I hate smelling it anytime I am not smoking. The only thing that makes me think it is going to be impossible to completely quit, is when I drink (alcohol) I just have to have a ciggy.

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    Posted by Thu Jan 8, 2009 12:47pm PST

    I never post anything but I just had to here. I quit about 10 months ago with the commit lozenge. The only reason it worked is that it took about 45 mins to disolve in your mouth and by that time I was over being annoyed that I wasn't smoking and forgot I wanted one. I really recomend this. Good Luck!

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  • dede's Avatar
    Posted by dede Thu Jan 8, 2009 1:33pm PST

    I smoked for ten years and had tried to quit with every method imaginable. Finally, in April I read The Easy Way to Stop Smoking by Allen Carr and I haven't picked up a cigarette since. I had tried to read it before and quit for a couple of months, but something didn't gel when I read the book. I still missed it. This time I read the book straight through, smoked a pack of cigarettes while doing it (which they recommend to continue to smoke while reading), and when I extinguished my last one I knew it was the last cigarette I would ever smoke. The book isn't magic, it just dispels all the reasons why you believe you still smoke. This book and some divine intervention were all it took for me to become a non-smoker. It might sound crazy, but it doesn't hurt to try it...what do you have to lose?

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  • Angela R's Avatar
    Posted by Angela R Thu Jan 8, 2009 2:30pm PST

    wow, Habanero, that must of been intense... Good Luck!

    I quit smoking... actually it was because I got pregnant. That is how we found out I was pregnant, everytime I smoked or my husband in front of me I would get sick. Only took a day or two of that to realize why! I quit immedietly and my husband is almost quit because of the fact he can no longer smoke in front of me, in the house or in our car! He smokes on the walk to work and on his work breaks and that is it... Takes him a week to go through a pack of smokes! I hope he quits soon, we only have eight weeks to go til the baby is here!

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  • Jeanette's Avatar
    Posted by Jeanette Fri Jan 9, 2009 3:03am PST

    I'm trying dear friends but sigga doesn't wanna drop me,what can i do! Help please.

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  • Nik's Avatar
    Posted by Nik Fri Jan 9, 2009 4:26am PST

    Dede, I quit the same way - that book is phenomenal! I haven't smoked in over 7 years because of it. I wish more people knew about it - It makes the quitting experience so much better - and it works!

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  • Diane's Avatar
    Posted by Diane Fri Jan 9, 2009 5:36am PST

    Hello There.. I applaud anyone who seriously tries to quit the nicotine addiction.. I once again have 9 months without a cigaretee. I have quit on numerous occassions and I tell people never to quit quitting.. a quit date is very good to do..your mind should be set for it. I also did alot of praying and my savior helped me to overcome this terrible addiction. May you have an easy time to quit this smoking I pray.. let me know and I will help you as much as I can .. bye ...

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  • LisaD's Avatar
    Posted by LisaD Fri Jan 9, 2009 6:36am PST

    I am on my third day with out a cigarette and it is not as bad this time.

    I have quit before and the stress level was extreme. I found myself flipping out just so I would have an excuse to have a cig. You know a cig. is the only thing that will calm your nerves when your a smoker.

    However, this time I was actually doing some research on the computer and mouth cancer came up. The pictures horrified me. It was enough to make you cry. After seeing these and realizing that this could happen to me, I threw my cigs. out the window.

    I know that a lot of times when you are a smoker, you think oh this wont happen to me, I'll quit before it gets to that point, but truth is, it can happen to you. No matter what age you are.

    Good luck everyone

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