Saturday, December 5, 2009

Here's how I plan to quit smoking. Would it work for you?

Every time I've ever tried to quit smoking, I have simply ground out the very last cigarette in my very last pack and then I was quit, and I didn't smoke again. Until I started smoking again. Sometimes a day later, or a week later or a month later, and a couple of times I managed more than a few months, a handful of them, a year or so. I have quit smoking for as many as four years, before taking it back up with enthusiasm and gusto. I have a lot of gusto, when it comes to smoking. And I always go back to it.

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I would rather do this on my own. Just set the pack down and walk away. Except, when I do, I always walk away telling myself that maybe I can smoke again later, if I am good, on special occasions, and when the sky is blue. And I always keep my promises. So clearly, quitting on my own and quitting without help is not something that sticks for me. I need a program! A cessation program! Maybe one that involves drugs and gums and shots and a watch that is swung gently before me, pendulum-like, in a dark room while a man in glasses with a little beard soothingly invites me to go into a deep trance during which he will reprogram my brain and fix me right up, good as new.

But maybe that is a lot of effort and will require a lot of planning and resources, and I can just turn to the Internet to see how I am supposed to quit smoking. Google "quit smoking," and you get some terrifying results. Many of them insist that you are DOOMED TO FAILURE unless you USE THEIR GREAT PLAN! Some of them involve forums, and signing up for modules. The one I have finally chosen involves an acronym. And the reason I chose it is because acronyms make me happy. I will not regret this decision, I think. Acronyms, man. Okay, let's quit.

So the acronym--it is START, and here is how it goes:
 
  • S = Set a quit date.
Okay! I can do that. I quit today.

  • T = Tell family, friends, and coworkers that you plan to quit.
Hey, everybody! I plan to quit, today. Please slap me mightily if you see me begin to crave nicotine.

  • A = Anticipate and plan for the challenges you'll face while quitting.
I anticipate that it is going to suck. Not only that, but it is going to suck a lot. I anticipate that I will be filled with rage, and a sense of overwhelming unfairness and the feeling that I am very cross that I cannot continue to smoke freely and without consequences. How am I going to plan for these challenges? I will probably whine a lot. It's a gift I have! Maybe I will also enjoy lollipops (a lot) and every time it sucks particularly a lot, I will buy myself a pair of shoes. (Smokers worry about getting pudgy if they quit, but continuing to smoke is actually associated with more belly fat in women.)

  • R = Remove cigarettes and other tobacco products from your home, car, and work.
Can I remove them by smoking them? No? Fine.

  • T = Talk to your doctor about getting help to quit.
Does that include valium? I bet it does! This quitting thing is going to be AWESOME. I am calling my doctor today!

Okay, this seems maybe a little too easy, this plan. It also seems like it is pretty much what I have done each time I have tried to quit, except without the fancy acronym. What is going to make it stick, this time? The government has some ideas for me, and to my snotty, cynical surprise, they are really good ideas--distraction, a change in routine, talking to other people who are trying to quit, even 1-800 numbers. I can call a 1-800 number if I have to. Today I'm just going to try walking a different route from work and practice not immediately snaking my pack out of my pocket the moment I step out of the office. I won't have a pack left. Soon I won't be smoking.

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  • Habanero♥™'s Avatar
    Posted by Habanero♥™ Fri Jan 9, 2009 6:46am PST

    Angela: You are having a baby soon? All the more reason for your husband to say I love my newborn more than I love R.J. Reynolds and the profits that they are making off of weak people like me. I never preach to anyone about smoking unless it is a teenager. Every adult knows in their heart that that they are killing themselves and their loved ones.

    Good Luck.

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  • Chris and Liz's Avatar
    Posted by Chris and Liz Fri Jan 9, 2009 8:04am PST

    I've been practicing my quit for the past two years...having some success like the author of quitting for a few months before taking it back up. I was off for about 9 months using the commit lozenges, but then was addicted to the nicotine in them and they were rotting my teeth out, despite lots of brushing and flossing. So I tripped back up to smoking. This time around I'm taking Wellbutrin and it has totally wiped out any cravings and withdrawal I have completely. It's only been 2 weeks, but I haven't had ANY of usual nicotine withdrawal symptoms (what a relief that is) and no cravings. I'm feeling really positive! Good luck to everyone and keep quitting if you relapse. Practice makes perfect. :)

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  • Chelle's Avatar
    Posted by Chelle Fri Jan 9, 2009 11:43am PST

    Chris and Liz-If taking Wellbutrin is helping you, that's great. However I would not reccomend taking a psychological drug for smoking cessation. Wellbutrin is also used for anxiety and depression so it affects your brain chemistry. It was given to me for depression when I was 14 and I had terrible side effects: lack of appetite, nausea, profuse sweating, dizziness, etc. Ironically that was the age I started smoking and I stopped the Wellbutrin months before I quit for the first time. Angela- The same thing happened to me the second time I quit. My baby was not letting me smoke while he was in there :) I've quit (or should I say "took a break") 3 times in 12 years. My goal is to quit for good by the time I'm 30. I know it's a few years off but I know if I don't create a tangible goal, it's not gonna happen.

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    Posted by Chelle Fri Jan 9, 2009 11:43am PST

    Chris and Liz-If taking Wellbutrin is helping you, that's great. However I would not reccomend taking a psychological drug for smoking cessation. Wellbutrin is also used for anxiety and depression so it affects your brain chemistry. It was given to me for depression when I was 14 and I had terrible side effects: lack of appetite, nausea, profuse sweating, dizziness, etc. Ironically that was the age I started smoking and I stopped the Wellbutrin months before I quit for the first time. Angela- The same thing happened to me the second time I quit. My baby was not letting me smoke while he was in there :) I've quit (or should I say "took a break") 3 times in 12 years. My goal is to quit for good by the time I'm 30. I know it's a few years off but I know if I don't create a tangible goal, it's not gonna happen.

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  • Habanero♥™'s Avatar
    Posted by Habanero♥™ Fri Jan 9, 2009 11:54am PST

    Chelle I am so with you on this and almost lost my son to Wellbutrin. He spent a week in the hospital. The Welbutrin reacted with something else he was taking and went into a severe depression. Never take a drug to quit smoking.

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  • blahblahblah's Avatar
    Posted by blahblahblah Fri Jan 9, 2009 3:15pm PST

    Today I have been quit for 251 days (this time). The time before I was quit for 9 months and I had quit several times before that for several weeks or a few months at a time. The last two times I have used Chantix and I have to say it works great. It is definately pricey but it does work. However, even after all this time it is still a struggle sometimes there have definately been times where I have wanted to have "just one" but I know that I cant ever have "just one" ever again because within 24 hours I would be right back to being a pack-a-day smoker. My problem is that I gained 20 pounds the last time I quit and 30 pounds this time because my new (or maybe not so new) way to deal with stress, boredom, anxiety etc, etc is to be an emotional eater.

    Which is worse for your health? Being 50 pounds overweight or smoking??

    It's always something!!!

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  • Diamond's Avatar
    Posted by Diamond Fri Jan 9, 2009 6:45pm PST

    You're going to love not smokeing. Trust me. You're going to save so much money. Also you're going to feel sick for a little while cause you're body will want it BUT after that you're going to feel like you're so much more energenic! My advice, since you're not going to be spending money on cigs, every time you think about buying a pack, put the money into a savinds or just tuck in away in a box or something. Than you'll really see how much you're saving! Also, try to take more walks, keeps you're mind on fresh air and how awesome it is to breath in something healthy!

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  • Tammy's Avatar
    Posted by Tammy Fri Jan 9, 2009 7:56pm PST

    I quit smoking almost two years ago after smoking for over twenty years.

    My mother was in the hospital on a ventalator fighting for her life. She had emphazema. My mother was well enough to return home, but still had a hard road ahead of her. She smoked for over forty years. enough was enough we had to do something. I didn't want my mom to die and I didn't want to end up like her, not being able to breath. So we quit together. I couln't believe it, we did it! We were proud of ourselves.

    My mother was doing so well. But my mother had to be rushed to the hospital again. Having to be on a breathing machine. Also diagnosed with lung and liver cancer. Devistating! My mother did return home but later passed away in her bed, two weeks after.

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  • MissK's Avatar
    Posted by MissK Fri Jan 9, 2009 11:39pm PST

    I quit on new year's day. The reason? I recently discovered I reek - I dropped off some xmas cookies to a friend and when he opened the tupperware, he claims to have gotten a whiff of smoke. I was mortified! A week later, I opened my purse at the MAC counter to pay for a new powder and the friend I was with told me she got a huge whiff of smoke from my purse, which by the way, is a $1,000 louis vuitton number. So I decided not to smoke in my house. I spent the last 10 days desmokifying EVERYTHING I own, and have been smoking two or three outside only. It is so unpleasant to be outside, I said the hell with it today, and only smoked a half of one. I figure by next week I won't be smoking at all. I just am not strong enough to say to myself - you will NEVER smoke another cig again, but I DO know I won't smoke in my house or car anymore. Snowstorm coming tomorrow, so you know I won't be outside in that!

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  • Lizbeth's Avatar
    Posted by Lizbeth Sat Jan 10, 2009 1:47pm PST

    First, kudos to anyone even thinking about quitting. I quit over 3 years ago, finally, and it's the best thing I've ever done for my health, but also the hardest. I empathize with all of you.

    Here's how I did it: Peter Jennings died on August 9th of lung cancer. The night before I had watched the movie Constantine about an angel dieing of lung cancer. That morning I woke up to the news about Peter Jennings and I put out my cigarette. Then I did whatever I could at work all day not to smoke. Then I found Quit Net.com and spent every minute I could talking to other people about not smoking and all the reasons why. I had tried quitting SO MANY times before this final time and getting the support of other quitters made all the difference.

    Each person has a formula that will work for them. Keep trying and your formula will appear.

    Good luck!

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