Wednesday, February 10, 2010

How an ordinary sock can help two cats become friends

When introducing a second cat to your resident cat, your chances of success are greater if the process is gradual. I’ve written about the introduction process in earlier blog  posts, but I wanted to focus on one little trick that can make a difference in the acceptance process…a sock. Yes, an ordinary sock.


Scent is one of the most valuable communication tools used by cats.  In fact, cats who are familiar with one another will recognize each other by scent before anything else. When doing a cat-to-cat introduction you can use scent to your advantage. The cats need to gradually become familiar with each other but putting them together will most likely result in hissing, growling, fighting, and fur-flying. A safer way to do begin is with a sock. Put a clean sock over your hand and gently pet the newcomer around the face to collect the cat’s facial pheromones (scent chemicals). Facial pheromones are considered the “friendly” ones because cats facially rub where they feel comfortable. Once you’ve collected the pheromones on the sock, spray it with a quick spritz of Feliway. This is a product you can get at pet supply stores that contains a synthetic version of feline facial pheromones.

The reason for using Feliway in addition to the pheromones of the new cat is because Feliway spray has a generic pheromone effect in that any cat who sniffs the sock will think it’s his own pheromones. He’ll think he facially rubbed on that sock and since cats tend to only facially rub where they feel comfortable he’ll hopefully assume the scent of the unfamiliar cat isn’t so threatening.

Place the sock in your resident cat’s area. Place it in a general area and not where your cat eats, sleeps, or near the litter box. Don’t point the sock out to your cat or force him to go over to investigate. Let him do it in his own time.

Your resident cat’s reaction to the sock can vary. He may sniff it and think it’s no big deal, or he may hiss at it. Any reaction is normal. The point of the sock placement is for him to start to become familiar with the new kitty’s scent without having an actual confrontation.

Do the same sock technique for the newcomer by taking the mate of that sock and gently petting your resident cat around the face. Spritz the sock with Feliway and then place it in the newcomer’s area. Again, not close to where he eats, sleeps, or near the litter box.

You can get several pairs of socks and do the sock exchange several times a day for a few days before beginning the actual introduction.

Once you’re ready for the introduction, you can find information in my previous blog, as well as on our website. There are also step-by-step instructions in the book, Cat vs. Cat.
 


Pam Johnson-Bennett is a Certified Animal Behavior Consultant and owner of Cat Behavior Associates, LLC.


NOTE: Behavior problems are case-specific and can have underlying medical problems. If your cat is experiencing a change in behavior, contact your veterinarian. The information in this blog should not be used as a diagnosis or as a substitute for appropriate veterinary care.

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  • vixenvena's Avatar
    Posted by vixenvena Fri May 29, 2009 11:56am PDT

    Does this work for dogs? Can I introduce my dog to the kitty by rubbing a sock on his face?

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  • Yvonne DiVita, Purina Blogger's Avatar
    Posted by Yvonne DiVita, Purina Blogger Fri May 29, 2009 12:05pm PDT

    This is an excellent piece of advice. I wish I'd thought of it when we were introducing my daughter's three cats (that I cat-sit now and then) to my cat. The four of them managed to get 'used' to each other, but the homecat (mine) is still reluctant to make friends with the visitors. They just tolerate each other.

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  • BrokenHeartedGirl.com's Avatar
    Posted by BrokenHeartedGirl.com Fri May 29, 2009 5:45pm PDT

    I wish I had known this when I introduced my two cats. I ended up keeping the new girl in the bathroom so they could play with one another under the door...gradually I let her out to sniff around the house...but it took almost a month before I would feel comfortable letting them stay home alone together. They actually ended up bonding after we moved to a new place. They were so terrified of their new surroundings that they spent a lot of time comforting one another. It was cute in a way and now we have no problems!

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    Posted by Judy Fri May 29, 2009 6:55pm PDT

    Please help!!!Does anyone know anyone that would take a beautiful snow white crippled cat and give her a home? I have to move to an apartment and can't afford to take her. Her back two legs are deformed but she gets along fine and doesn't know she's crippled(she was born like that)She is fixed but not declawed. Please help, moving soon. Only to a loving home. Thanks!!

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  • KerryQ's Avatar
    Posted by KerryQ Mon Jun 1, 2009 12:41am PDT

    One cat peed on the sock, and Feliway gives my other cat diarhea.

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  • Pam Johnson-Bennett, CABC's Avatar
    Posted by Pam Johnson-Bennett, CABC Mon Jun 1, 2009 11:44am PDT

    Kerry, Feliway shouldn't have that kind of effect. Did you spray just one little spritz on the sock? The diarrhea may have more to do with the stress the cat may be experiencing during the introduction. Slow the process down. You might be rushing things.

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  • erin's Avatar
    Posted by erin Mon Jun 1, 2009 4:01pm PDT

    I have owned 6 cats and three dogs, and as a young pet owner, 22, I do have alot of experience. I think it's a good idea to use this, but a easier way is keeping the dog seperated and making it so the cat can approach them. Kitties hate dogs sticking their noses in their faces when they meet, the cat should still get run of all the house with exception of one room. That is the dogs room, and it should include it's crate and toys. You can still let the dog out around the house a little bit and to eat in the communal kitchen eating area but it should be only be out for a little bit at a time. Eventually the cat will come around and using scented items is a good idea. When I got a friend for my cat we introduced the youngest cat to the oldest with a blanket that smelled like the older cat and let the older cat play and sniff the carrier. After two weeks they were cuddling to with each other and 5 months later they are best friends. We spereated them at night and during the day but allowed them several hours a day to be out together. That is what we did with all our cats. They all loved each other and the dogs to certain degrees and it's worked well.

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  • Doris's Avatar
    Posted by Doris Tue Jun 2, 2009 5:43am PDT

    How can I get my new out side cat to use a litter box?

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  • Pam Johnson-Bennett, CABC's Avatar
    Posted by Pam Johnson-Bennett, CABC Wed Jun 3, 2009 12:51pm PDT

    Dear Vixenvena, the dog/cat intro is done differently. The dog needs to be on one side of the room on a leash, getting treats from you whenever he is relaxed. The cat should be on the other side of the room. There are step-by-step instructions in "Starting from Scratch". The process is based on teaching the dog to not chase the cat and to change the way he approaches the cat. It's also very important to make sure there are safe places for the cat (usually elevated) and that the dog is taught not to bother the cat when he's in one of those safe places.

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  • janisw's Avatar
    Posted by janisw Sat Jun 6, 2009 3:12pm PDT

    I got my cats used to the new dog & vice versa, by just rubbing their faces with my hand and then with the same hand rubbing the face of the other; they love being petted so much they would just sniff my hand & accept the petting.

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