Tuesday, February 9, 2010

"Off Season"-A Book Of Love And Loss

I normally read Anne Rivers Siddons when I need a "feel good read". While "Off Season" is a great book it's not neccessarily a "feel good" read as I like to call them. Instead this is a book about retrospect and finding one's self in a time where we would prefer to bury our head under the covers and sleep for days on end.

It is a book that delves into the lives of a happy family and then it  takes you through the pitfalls of the tragedies that befall them. The story's main character Lilly is at the center of the story often telling it from her point of view. It is an interesting story of a young love blossoming into something beautiful yet unattainable. Lilly falls in love with Jon only to lose him to a horrible accident that could have been avoided had Jon's father exercised better parenting skills and not given in to his own grief. This is to be only one of the tragedies I speak of.

Set first in Maine and then on to Washington DC the story unfolds as the family struggles to deal with the loss of Jon, Lilly's friend, and then the loss of Elizabeth, Lilly's mother, to a battle with breast cancer. A touching story but not always a happy one, shows us how love is not always an absolute but can sometimes be blinding. It is a story that attempts to teach us that "kindness" can be extended in many different ways, some surprising. It is a story that will have me question my own parenting in the future to assure myself  that my grief never spills over onto my children in a way that makes their grieving impossible. I think this is a book that leaves much unsaid and wants us to fill in some of those blanks.

I have always enjoyed Ms Siddons books and this one did not disappoint. There is much about this book that I have not touched on. I feel that you must read it to truly grasp what I refer to as a deeply thoughtful and touching read. Read between the lines in some cases and you will see what I mean, especially in the case of Lilly's husband Cam. Enjoy!
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  • Lucy W's Avatar
    Posted by Lucy W Thu Dec 3, 2009 4:44am PST

    I have never read any of Ms Siddon's books but the review gives me the impression that the book is mature and realistic. Certainly the bit about 'over-grieving' and stunting other people's lives makes me want to read it - it's a new concept for me.

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  • Tara's Avatar
    Posted by Tara Fri Dec 4, 2009 8:44am PST

    Lucy, this writer does write on a mature level that is very refreshing. I hope you read something of hers and of course enjoy!

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    Posted by Gordon Fri Jan 1, 2010 3:41pm PST

    This book seems like a good suggestion. I haven't read anything from Ms. Siddons and I've been wanting to read something to make me weep. Alessandro Baricco's "Silk" made me cry rivers, that was good!

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  • Leah's Avatar
    Posted by Leah Wed Jan 13, 2010 12:23pm PST

    Thank you for commenting on my post. I think I wasn't clear saying that it has nothing to do with the boy's hair at all. It's about the parents showing their kids, by example, that they don't have to follow the rules that they disagree with.

    Have a great day :)

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  • Tara's Avatar
    Posted by Tara Tue Jan 19, 2010 11:43am PST

    I have read everything that Anne Rivers Siddons has written and look forward to another great book. Thank you for the information.

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