Saturday, December 5, 2009

Love Your Body (Even in Swimsuit Season)


Millions of Americans—most of them women—struggle each day with feelings of shame and inadequacy about their physical selves. In fact, studies have shown that the majority of American women don't like what they see in the mirror. (And obsessing about how you're going to look at the beach in a few weeks doesn't help!)

Yogis certainly aren't immune to the complex web of cultural forces that contribute to the epidemic of self-loathing. After all, it's not easy to reconcile life in an image-conscious world with the yogic notion that the body is simply the vessel through which we navigate a spiritual path.

But yoga practice creates an opportunity for us to re-create our relationship with our body. While we may have come to the mat looking for a "yoga butt," when we get there, we're usually so focused on directing breath into our tight quads or feeling the alignment in our hips that we forget about our appearance. By enabling us to go inward—to focus on how we feel in a pose rather than how we look—yoga encourages us to let go of our desires for our body and criticisms of it, to enjoy its movements. Over time, this experiential relationship with our body may even enable us to forsake the mirror for our internal seer, to filter out social pressures and unrealistic expectations, and to accept ourselves as we are.

Yoga makes a difference because of its emphasis on self-acceptance, something that's largely missing for those of us who dislike our bodies. The program in our heads—I'm not pretty enough, thin enough, tall enough — builds in volume over years until it's practically the only radio station playing. Odd as it seems, the vessel that keeps us alive, that nourishes us, begins to get nothing but our scorn in return.

Read more about how yoga helps you embrace your body.

Happy in Your Own Skin

http://www.yogajournal.com/lifestyle/2242

Experience the Miracle

http://www.yogajournal.com/lifestyle/1243

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  • annie's Avatar
    Posted by annie Wed May 13, 2009 5:42pm PDT

    How about an article for the millions of women who DO NOT STRUGGLE DAILY with feelings of shame and inadequacy about their bodies? When is there going to be an article for the in shape healthy confident adequate self-esteemed women? Or is this site just for women who never achieve their pinnacle?

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  • Juliana's Avatar
    Posted by Juliana Wed May 13, 2009 7:54pm PDT

    wow, nice way of putting it. b---- .

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  • kessy's Avatar
    Posted by kessy Thu May 14, 2009 2:52am PDT

    Recently I found a hot club -- T a l l h u b . c o m -- just for sexy tall gals and guys to find their cupid. Come on, tall singles. Don't miss your love.

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  • silviaR's Avatar
    Posted by silviaR Thu May 14, 2009 6:32am PDT

    Sometimes we are our own worst critic. But lately I have taken some Bikram yoga classes, and now when I feel out of sinc, I just repeat to myself: you are exactly where you need to be, and exactly how you should be. Funny enough, it works, not only on the physical side of things, but also to overcome obsticles. However, I don't think that women are the only ones feeling that way, men do too, but we are the ones that voice our feelings, while men are really good at hiding them.

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  • Eddieslilangel's Avatar
    Posted by Eddieslilangel Sat May 16, 2009 10:24am PDT

    thats exactly why i do yoga. it makes you feel refreshed and makes you feel good.

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  • Queenv's Avatar
    Posted by Queenv Sun May 17, 2009 5:28am PDT

    being your drivers life can help u achieve a lot of things...stick to principles and avoid sitting around those contaminated

    minds. believe in ur self and make each and evry moment da most memorable one...

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  • Rebekah's Avatar
    Posted by Rebekah Tue May 26, 2009 12:50pm PDT

    Annie, you're reading in the section called "your best summer body", where they give tips on how to get in shape. "the in shape healthy confident adequate self-esteemed women" generally don't need these tips. How would an article for these women in this section go? "You're there--congradulations!"? Even the title of this article should give away that this is not for people who are already at their "pinnacle". So why do you feel the need to make comments? If fitness isn't a problem for you, why even read this article? Go check out any number of other topics. Try the fashion section, maybe. But making that comment after this article just makes you sound like you're bragging about your shape.

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    Posted by Jennifer Fri Jun 12, 2009 11:55am PDT

    In a way Annie is right there are never really any articles congratulating us woman who work hard to keep our body in shape. On the other hand this article IS about loving your body (even in swimsuit season) so her question belongs elsewhere. I workout 5 or 6 days a week and watch what I eat regularly and even though I still feel like i should be skinnier or that my abs aren't flat enough sometimes. So, yeah where are the articles that help to encourage me to keep up the good work, that tell me everyone has fat days; nobody ever talks about that!

    However yoga is a great workout; I do it at least twice a week for anybody wondering. Does anyone know of a good yoga dvd? I currently do Denise Austin's Power Yoga which incorporates Ashtanga yoga which is a good flow style yoga w/sun salutations which is best for calorie blasting.

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  • Leila's Avatar
    Posted by Leila Fri Jun 12, 2009 8:17pm PDT

    hello . i dont know english very good .i am sorry . thanks . kiss

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  • Katina's Avatar
    Posted by Katina Wed Jun 17, 2009 4:31pm PDT

    Hmmmm...well, I'm NOT in shape and although would love to be overnight, I don't hate my body and couldn't really give a rat's ass about what people thought about what I looked like in a swimsuit. I live in my pool in the summer and enjoy every minute. When I go public places, it's all about having a good time, whether I'm fat or fit. I feel adequate, confident...yada yada. It's just not about what I look like, it's about whether I feel good physically and my attitude about myself. And today, well, I feel pretty darn good about me.

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