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    10 summer fashion rules you should break (in honor of Memorial Day)

    Getty ImagesGetty ImagesThe Memorial Day holiday marks the unofficial start to summer style which means, if you haven't already, you're probably pulling out last year's warm weather clothes and looking at them with awe and panic. These first summer weeks are always a bit awkward, fashion-wise, as it takes most of us a minute to get into the groove of dresses, sandals, and exposing more of our skin. This wardrobe transition is further complicated when we try to follow all of summer's fashion rules--most of which are outdated, created decades ago by highfalutin' folks, and never followed by anyone who's truly stylish anyway. So, this Memorial Day, let's make a pact to say goodbye to these silly conventions! I've debunked the top ten dumb summer style rules below. Seriously, don't worry about them. We've all got enough to think about.

    1. Myth: No white after Labor Day
    You know, maybe right now you're thinking, "But it's only Memorial Day! Why do I care about Labor Day?" Well, because we should start out with the dumbest, most obsolete rule in fashion and work our way down. Wear white whenever you want, Buy yourself a white coat and a white hat next winter and, right now, pick up a breezy, pretty white dress and wear it with strappy sandals and carry a white purse. You are free of this white law forever.

    2. Myth: Suede is only good in winter
    This is a lie! There are so many amazing suede sandals and bags in the world, it would be a shame to miss out on them. I would, however, avoid fringey suede jackets and suede skirts until fall, but that's just common sense, right?

    3. Myth: Gold and silver do not belong together
    In what can only be explained as a fashion wives' tale, this rule limits so many beautiful, interesting, and unique jewelry combinations it's almost sinful. Here's an opposite-to-the-rule trick I like: Try layering your silver and gold chains together (as they've done with this lovely Express necklace at right).

    4. Myth: You can't wear black to a summer wedding
    New rule: You can wear black anywhere you want and you will always look chic. For summer, I'd choose lightweight fabrics and skin-baring styles, like this perfectly great strapless dress from J.Crew. Pair it with a playful, unexpected belt, just like the model at the top.

    5. Myth: Patent leather is not to be worn year round
    Years ago, when I worked at a fashion magazine, a rather snobbish editor once corrected me about my patent leather shoes. I think she told me they were only to be worn in winter, but the way she told me was mean and obviously meant to make me feel like I wasn't elite or rich enough to know such things. BLAH BLAH BLAH. Since then, I've asked lots of actual fashion experts about this so-called "rule" and the consensus is: Patent leather is incredibly cool, it is everywhere, and you can definitely pull it off when the temperatures are high (I promise).

    6. Myth: Wedges are not acceptable dress shoes
    I recently saw this rule on a popular fashion advice blog and I wanted to write an angry letter to the author. Grrr. Listen, wedges are a footwear gift from the heavens--the right styles have all of the lift and elegance of heels, but without the discomfort. They're also the perfect shoes to wear to an outdoor wedding because they don't sink in to the grass and they often feel good on your feet all night, just stay away from woven, wood, or straw styles and you'll be fine. Last, no one can tell me this Gucci pair (left) is anything less than spectacular.

    7. Myth: Tan is sexier than pale
    Not anymore! High-style women on runways, red carpets, and in magazine fashion spreads have been moving away from the orange-y/roasted look for years and now it is fully acceptable, and even preferable, to look dewy and porcelain.

    8. Myth: Shorts must always be casual
    Also not true! Or, actually it all depends on the pair. If you buy well-tailored, longer styles made from substantial, dressier fabrics, shorts can often substitute for skirts. I'd wear the Banana Republic version at right with wedges, a pretty blouse, a cardigan and a favorite necklace and feel sleek and presentable.

    9. Myth: Your bag and shoes must match
    Actually, sometimes when your bag and shoes match you kind of look like a dork. Or a bridesmaid. Be creative with your shoe/bag combinations--that's half the fun of accessories!

    10. Myth: Thou shall not wear wool in the summer
    OK. This is just silliness. Of course you can put on wool in July. It's not like you're going to bust out your thick-knit fisherman's sweater, but a lightweight wool cardigan is perfectly acceptable. It gets cold at night in the summer and, and let's face it, cotton doesn't always keep you warm.

     

    85 comments

    • Dawnifer  •  11 months ago
      For the kid in the suit. It's not the color of the suit, it's the cut of the suit and the man in it. If you can work on your confidence and find a good tailor you wear what you want Baby.
    • Ida  •  2 years 1 month ago
      Regarding KatelynM's post:

      I get so sick of yahoo's articles not ever being proofread.
      Please tell me how "Myth: Shorts must always to be casual"
      makes sense..

      KatelynM, I'm afraid you are the one who did not proofread. There is no "to" in the phrase "Myth: Shorts must always be casual". Without the errant "to", the statement makes perfect sense. In addition, the word Yahoo is a proper noun and should be capitalized.
    • Sixycat  •  3 years 0 months ago
      WOW what a great and freeing article! Thank You!
    • Allexis  •  2 years 10 months ago
      Not to be rude or anything but the only way this stuff works is if your trying to be some type of rebel
    • A Yahoo! User  •  3 years 0 months ago
      People that make "fashion rules" are morons. Wear what you want, when you want and don't worry about what "they" say is okay to wear. It's your body after all. Clothe it the way you like!!!
    • Pip  •  3 years 0 months ago
      I disagree about the black dress @ a wedding, but that's just me being old fashioned. And in my experience, people who have worn black to weddings gave off the vibe that they just put on their little black dress & really couldn't care less about the event.

      But whatever, fashion is stupid..
    • John T  •  3 years 0 months ago
      Did you see those shorts?? LOL
    • Stacey  •  3 years 0 months ago
      I don't care what Jennifer Romolini says. White after Labor Day looks trashy.
    • Pflavia  •  3 years 0 months ago
      To Pairadocs:
      Obviously you don't live in the South. White suits or blue and white pinstipe seersucker suits are still seen here in the summer on gentlemen of any ethnicity. I would avoid the t-shirt, but the rest of your options sound just fine to me! Of course, I'm 59, but have you seen Burn Notice? Michael Weston not only gets away with those styles, he looks fabulous! I wouldn't wear white shoes with a mobster pinstripe dark suit, but if you can find them to wear with Summer whites and pastels, go right ahead. By the way, you can join my croquet society anytime. We could use someone with your style.
    • A Yahoo! User  •  3 years 0 months ago
      I love this! Wedges are the only thing I can balance in because of my flat feet and I like that someone understands that they can be very elegant. Thanks!
    • patsy519  •  3 years 0 months ago
      Oh boy. I grew up with rules 1 & 2. I am still trying to break them without feeling funny. I also grew up with a couple of the other ones but have managed to breake free!! So I guess that there is still hope for me. Now excuse me while I go switch over to my white patent leather purse!
    • Mrs. P  •  3 years 0 months ago
      It is stupid to place "rules" on when you can wear things...I will wear whatever, whenever, thank you! Lol.
    • Macarius  •  3 years 0 months ago
      Sorry. The one about a sexy black dress to a wedding is just plain wrong (at least, the black dress shown -- a black suit or with a colored blouse might pass). Also, something that bare is not acceptable in a church.

      Some of the attitudes expressed above show that you folks don't understand the meaning of a "ceremony." It's a group expression and, if it takes place in a church, you ought to show that you respect the place (regardless of whether or not you personally accept its beliefs or creeds). It's not about self-expression.

      You can save showing "the real me" for dates. The point is, a wedding is not about you. It's about someone else. You put aside yourself to spotlight someone else. And it's beautiful when, at a morning wedding, everyone "gets it" and the room is filled with bright and flowery dresses, with the bride the only one in white. It's beautiful at a funeral when you scan the group, and the mood is somber and reflective, with grays, blacks, and neutrals dominating. This is part of the beauty of the event, and everyone contributes.
    • lightoftruth4  •  3 years 0 months ago
      The reason WHITE is worn in summer is because BLACK asborbs heat. One time I wore a black T-shirt in Fort Lauderdale in summer and I was roasting...it didn't take me long to figure out why LIGHT colors are better for summer.
    • Joan  •  3 years 0 months ago
      Like we needed your (fashion editors, etc...) permission to break your perceived ridiculous fashions rules ? Please !
      Real Women wear what they want and what they like and ALWAYS have. Most of us NEVER listen to any of your nonsense and never have.
    • Kristen  •  3 years 0 months ago
      I agree with all of these. Especially that you can wear black to a wedding. There is nothing wrong with wearing black to a wedding; if the wedding party (the bridesmaids and groomsmen) are wearing black then isn't it perfectly acceptable for the guests to wear black? Its a classic look.

      As for the wedges, I found a cute pair at Old Navy the other day (unfortunately they didn't have my size) and they were so comfortable. Usually though I can never find a pair that feel right on my feet. But I agree that wedges are acceptable dress shoes.

      And to all the people who hate these fashion blogs/articles, where does it say "You must wear these things"? I didn't see it. These are just suggestions, they're not ordering you to change the way you dress. Feel free to dress however you want.
    • Descriptor98  •  3 years 0 months ago
      Aprarently it's cool to be shallow!
    • Calvin T  •  3 years 0 months ago
      I totally agree with this article. I can feel free to wear whatever I am comfortable in wearing. I don't like anyone who created these fashion rules.
    • Jackie P  •  3 years 0 months ago
      Some good sense here, but too many generalities. For instance, I defy you to find a cool enough place here in Georgia to wear wool in summer. Also, if you are a curvy woman like me, please don't wear a white dress so that you look like the broad side of a barn. White gives the illusion that you are bigger than you actually are. Wear it if yoou are thin. Further in a hot climate, wear patent leather if you want to feel like your feet are swimming in perspiration all day.
    • Dakota  •  3 years 0 months ago
      Finally, pale is back baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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