Turns out, your guilty pleasures (chocolate, video games) may not be so guilty after all. And those pesky side effects of being an adult-stress, anyone?-can actually benefit you too. Read on to learn the positives of your seemingly negative habits.
Say Yes to Stress
As long as stress doesn't completely overtake you (too much burns the body out), a little bit isn't such a bad thing. "It can motivate you into action and clear the mind," says Judith Orloff, MD, author of Emotional Freedom and a psychiatrist at UCLA. According to Dr. Orloff, good stress is defined as when you experience a short burst of the hormones adrenaline and cortisol, which rev up your system, propelling you to better handle and complete tasks. A little stress has helped actors give their finest performances and brides plan the most elaborate weddings. Adds Orloff, "The stress hormones help make you more present, so you are sharper."
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Special Dark
Though milk chocolate might win in a popularity contest, many experts have been lauding dark chocolate (especially the variety containing high cocoa content) because it's chock-full of antioxidants. And according to Jordan Rubin, New York Times best-selling author of The Maker's Diet , the sweet stuff releases endorphins and serotonin, which act as antidepressants. Some proponents also say that just a few pieces of the excellent-quality dark chocolate can seriously curb your cravings. It's rich in chemicals that stabilize your brain when it longs for sugar-so it goes a long way. For another healthy bonus, go organic, too: "Regular chocolate is sprayed with heavy pesticides that we end up consuming," Rubin says.
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Get Your Game On
Okay. We know what you're thinking. But with the advent of the Wii, you can't be a couch potato because playing requires you to move. (And now other companies are developing active programs too.) In fact, the game is a million times more interactive than watching TV. "Before the Wii, who ever worked up a sweat playing a video game in their living room?" says Paul Bragan, executive director at Wakefield Research, a leading gaming researcher. "Using a wireless controller, you can bowl and play baseball and tennis all from your family room." And certain games inspire children to interact with parents and adults. "Last year, a British magazine revealed that Queen Elizabeth became an avid video gamer after joining her grandson Prince William in a game of Wii," says Bragan. "I'd call that a royal vote of confidence."
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Bubblicious?
Reader's Digest reporters interviewed 25 dentists for their story in the July 2009 issue "50 Secrets Your Dentist Will Never Tell You." Their findings? Chewing gum actually prevents cavities. Studies show that if you want to reduce bad bacteria, xylitol (a sugar substitute found in chewing gum) helps change the chemistry of your mouth. Six or seven pieces of xylitol gum every day will help keep cavities away. "And chewing gum triggers saliva, which also aids in preventing cavities," says the magazine's deputy editor, Lisa Davis. (However, in a related study, gum cracking was found to be irritating by 100 percent of participants.)
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Love Thy Frenemy
Can it really be good to have a one-upping frenemy? Actually, it is, say some experts. "It can definitely make life a little more challenging and interesting," says Andrea Lavinthal, coauthor ofFriend or Frenemy?: A Guide to the Friends You Need and the Ones You Don't . "Some healthy competition can propel you in a positive way and keep you on your toes." If your frenemy goes on a diet and loses a lot of weight, chances are you will hit the treadmill with more vigor and out-diet her. Besides, a frenemy can make you aware of your negative behavior and help keep you in check. "You know how there is always one girl in a group of friends who 'tells it like it is' whether you want to hear it or not?" says Lavinthal. "That honesty, while annoying and sometimes hurtful, can also be really helpful."
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Shout It Out
We all know the dangers of keeping emotions bottled up (err, psych 101?)-but some parenting experts say that it's important to let off a little steam and show your kids when you are angry with them-for your sake and theirs! Yell at them, you ask? "Sometimes children do things to make you angry. They need to understand the consequences, and you have to be more stern and harsh to reinforce the message," says Bennett Leventhal, MD, a professor of psychiatry at the Institute for Juvenile Research, University of Illinois College of Medicine in Chicago. And yes, in certain situations, it's even acceptable to shout. "While as a guide, we don't want to yell at our children, especially with routine communication," says Dr. Leventhal, "in an emergency or crisis, yelling is good to gain their attention. But afterward you should always explain why you were angry."
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