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    Living on 50% less cash: one mom's story

    By Lisa Cash Hanson, Sarah Lybrand

    Not that long ago, finding crazy-unique ways to save money was never on my list of things to do. I was working as a celebrity impersonator in Las Vegas, and the dough kept rolling in. But suddenly, my husband and I received the greatest news of our lives - we were expecting a baby!


    There comes a moment in every successful soon-to-be mom's pregnancy when she asks herself, "Do I keep working this job…or stay home to raise my child?" When I rolled this question around in my head, I knew my singing and traveling gypsy days were numbered. I loved performing, but being able to spend time with my daughter meant so much more.

    So, I hung up my rhinestones and feather headdresses, and immediately went into savings mode. We'd now be living on one income, a whopping 50% less than we were used to. Such a dramatic change in our finances would require both some creative thinking -- and some serious negotiations.

    Some people like to use the word "budget" -- but I prefer "adjustment." Small, incremental changes that over time, add up to a lot of savings! We've "adjusted" in a bunch of ways: my salon visits and weekly mani-pedis are ancient history of course, and even my husband has found ways to "adjust." He's traded in an expensive hobby (drag racing) for a more affordable past-time (target practice - and instead of buying bullets… he makes his own!).

    Here are some of my all-time favorite strategies for managing bills and saving money:


    • Call your service providers and ask if they're running specials: Over a period of several months I went from a cell phone bill of $175 to $85 using this method - and believe me, my plan has all the perks! The cable company? They said, "Sure, we can give you a $5 monthly credit." Why? Who knows. Probably because I asked.
    • Switch car insurance companies: Do your research because you don't want inferior coverage -- but this one little tip is currently saving us about $150 a month.
    • Refuse to pay credit card membership fees: Many times these fees go unnoticed but when I called my credit card company to tell them I didn't want to pay this monthly fee, they offered to remove it.
    • Pay bills on time: Sometime we let bills slide out of laziness. I've done that. But I've also learned this one little "slip up" can cost a LOT in late fees: $35 here, $20 there. And who'd willingly burn up a 20 dollar bill?
    • Use coupons that make sense for you: I can't hang with those moms on the Extreme Couponing shows, but when I find a coupon that works for my family, I use and use again! We found a coupon for our grocery store that gets us $20 off a $100 grocery bill -- each time we shop. My husband buys diapers at our local Baby Store instead of the grocery store because they offer a gift certificate with purchase. These are the expenses that add up quickly in our household, and so we go out of our way for the deal.
    • Get creative: I knew that if I could combine my skills as a writer and businesswoman, I could share what I've learned with other moms! Last year I launched my blog, Mompreneur Mogul - and even started designing my own baby products. Not only are these projects incredibly rewarding for me as I raise my daughter, they're incrementally bringing additional income into the household, which is only going to help secure our future in years to come.

    These simple strategies have helped my family adjust to living on half of what we did before, allowing me to stay home with Matilda -- and for that, we're grateful.

     
    • George  •  Nelson Mandela Bay, South Africa  •  1 month 15 days ago
      support of advice im paid my debts by dedt one payment per month and skip one payment due to death in family an one creditor send a summons to take my car i spoke with counsellisr an attorney but they advice is different an stil wait for them for finally report about the summons after weeks
    • Maggie  •  Sterling, Michigan  •  3 months ago
      Once you have a high lifestyle it is incredibly hard to cut back. The real trick is to always live well below your means right from the get-go.
    • Nodor  •  Sacramento, California  •  3 months ago
      Maybe dump that Escalade while you are at it...
    • Queen Bee  •  Cicero, Illinois  •  3 months ago
      2 yrs ago, at 63 yrs of age, after 25 years at the same job I was terminated for calling in
      sick! Now we are living on 1/3 of our previous income. My 72 yr old husband is retired, and I have been unable to find a job! We support 2 adopted teen Grandchildren. Tell me I can save money and cut my spending. We are just making do! I buy my clothes at a thrift store, and most of the kids clothes there. We never go out to eat. Vacation?? forget it.
      Our home had devalued so much, we cannot sell to downsize!! What is the average American to do??
      She didn't help me one bit with her suggestions
      • Barb Barber 3 months ago
        I think this article is just a rich housewife's new hobby.
      • bug1968 2 months ago
        You live in one of the worst states for home values and for employment. The person writing this article has no control over each individual's circumstances. Just take her advice only as it applies and if it doesn't, move on to someone else. You have my sympathy, by the way. Illinois is not a good place to be right now and it will get much worse there before it gets better.
      • JRD 2 months ago
        Not being able to downsize without losing all our home equity in this terrible housing market has many of us senior citizens caught in a squeeze. I keep asking myself if it's better to take the loss and get out from under the monthly expense of a large older house that costs too much and is too big for me to properly clean, or to try and stick it out for another year or so and hope I can recoup some of what I've poured into it. I'm already doing without so many things, I can't think of anything else to cut! I hope things get better for you and your family, Queen Bee. You deserve a break for rearing your grandchildren. Good luck to you!
    • L. P.  •  Bradenton, Florida  •  2 months ago
      Boo-hoo to her!!!! In the last two years I had two knees replaced, got divorced and took on two mortgages. I paid big bucks for a crappy school and no alimony or monthly income. Only a lump sum settlement which is almost gone. I gave up a lot including my cable and internet. I just got my first job in 5 years with barely enough income to pay the mortgages. All my friends are losing their homes or are hurting financially. And gas is $4 a gallon. Somebody's making the bucks but it isn't us. When will they realize that our patronage is the foundation of their empire and that foundation is crumbling!
      • Saoirse 2 months ago
        We will crumble but not their foundations because they have moved them overseas.
    • Wolf  •  Elmhurst, Illinois  •  3 months ago
      Spend $5-6 dollars for lunch purchase ... or buy a loaf of bread, cold cuts, lettuce and mustard and have lunch for a week for the same price ...
      • Bill 3 months ago
        I agree i have bin doing that for 3 years now and my own coffee to, the bottom line is about 1,000 per year saved
      • SimplyMe 3 months ago
        I so agree but in an office as executive most times you have to eat out with the higher ups. Also there are dietary needs and cold cuts can not be in it. But yes things have changed
    • Barry  •  Dallas, Texas  •  3 months ago
      We cut our utility bills in half by quit using the clothes dryer...bought a clothesline...and used a crockpot to fix dinners at home instead of using the oven. Also planted a vegitable garden.
      • notarunaroundsue 3 months ago
        ever heard of a microwave?
      • Blanca 3 months ago
        Microwave ovens are fine--for some things. 'Rubber chicken' isn't just a banquet item if you try cooking it in one.
      • will 2 months ago
        Have you saved enough to pay for a punctuation and spelling class?
    • Mary  •  Carbondale, Pennsylvania  •  3 months ago
      I follow a very simple and logical plan for spending...If I can't afford it...I don't buy it!!!
    • Debra  •  Providence, Rhode Island  •  3 months ago
      The author has discovered one of the big secrets of the two-income family: a lot of money gets wasted .. and not just on weekly manicures. When there is no one home to cook and no time to spend hunting for the best deals (on food and everything else), it costs a lot more money to run the double-income household. And this doesn't take into account the costs associated with the second income, either: second car, child care, wardrobe, eating out, and the big chunk of the income that goes right to Uncle Sam.
    • palehorse  •  3 months ago
      I left a $70,000 a year job and retired at 62 ... I used to live payday to payday ..new cars ...used credit cards dinners etc ...Two years before I retired I got rid of the new cars .. bought a 1989 Ford truck for $6000.00 cash ..I got rid of the credit cards .l was lucky to get rid of the house and bought a fix- it -upper in the woods and had a little change left over .I started a small one man part-time business . I live on less than 1/3 of my old salary and have more extra money than I ever had in my life... and no bills or loans .
      • FreeURChains 3 months ago
        Glad I am doing this since Age 21. I will be retired by age 30, while other's work in their mental traps placed upon them by Rich and Powerful Men until their sixties plus.
    • ms anne  •  Kansas City, Missouri  •  3 months ago
      well when you are living on a retirement income and you had your credit cards paid off as i did it is great---but when the washer and dryer both conked out when the 13 year old car bellied up and the cost to repair it was outrageous when the old plumbing in the old house started leaking and when the level payment utility plans went up when life insurance payments went up with age etc--it gets kind of overwellning and neverending!
    • Marcia  •  Buenos Aires, Argentina  •  3 months ago
      She had to stop her WEEKLY visits to hairdresser, manicure, massager and spa...etc..etc etc...in order to save money??/ oh , please... let's talk about normal people !!!!
    • jim2  •  Dallas, Texas  •  3 months ago
      I closed my credit cards and bank accounts. bought a travel trailer and moved into a rv camp ground. I save 2000 a month in rent and utilities, It has been a year and a half now i am completely debt free and have more money saved than i have ever had. at the time i decided to do this my income went from 60000 to 28000 . 2 more years i will have enough cash to buy a piece of land and never have to worry about rent or mortgage payments.
    • will  •  Omaha, Nebraska  •  2 months ago
      Wonder what the painted lady looks like beneath all that make-up? Cutting out all that war paint might just save enough to pay off that big Navigator all by itself...just sayin'
    • Rhino  •  3 months ago
      No matter how bad you have it, there's always someone, who has it worse. Remember the old saying, "I felt bad that I had no shoes. Then I saw a man, who had no feet".
    • Gene S  •  3 months ago
      they left out two very important details: from what income to what new income did they have to adjust? It's much easier to go from 300 to 150 than from 70 to 35 thousand. Also, where do they live?
    • Heather  •  3 months ago
      If you have food in your fridge, clothes on your back, a roof over your head and a place to sleep, you are richer than 75% of the WORLD. If you have money in the bank, your wallet, and some spare change, you are among the top 8% of the worlds WEALTHY. If you woke up this morning with more health than illness you are more BLESSED than the MILLION people who will not survive this week. If you have never experienced the danger of battle, the agony of imprisonment or torture, or the horrible pangs of starvation you are luckier than 500 MILLION PEOPLE ALIVE AND SUFFERING. If you can READ this message you are more fortunate than 3 BILLION people in the world who cannot read at all.
    • grouchyoldfart  •  Las Vegas, Nevada  •  3 months ago
      I do not have a cell phone and my land line phone bill is less than 10 bucks a month... Its easy to save money.... just dont waste in useless crap....
    • Stef  •  Okinawa-shi, Japan  •  3 months ago
      What the hell? When am I going to see a story about how normal people have managed to save money?
    • SimplyMe  •  Miami, Florida  •  3 months ago
      Ok everyone here I am, a real person just like any of you criticizing. I have lost my job, have kids and in debt. Right Now my car payment is going to drown me but to survive here is what I have actually done and I am glad I am not living frivilous. 1. I shut my house phone, use my cell phone bill is under $50. a month. 2. Cable t.v. off, kids are not missing it. 3. I have cheapest internet (internet only) 4. Credit cards cut with agreement of lowering interest rate (now if I can get them Paid off) 5. Try not to run my A/C - Live in FL Does get hot I run it a little to cool upstairs than off it goes. Happier with the $60.00 bill than the $160.00 electric bill. 5. No junk food in house, frivilous juices/soda - nope. Purchase buy 1 get 1 free - only if I normally purchase it otherwise its a waste of money ( I normally wouldnt buy it so why now even with a coupon-waste of $). Cut out our water service (although you need to purchase water here in FL). I use a filter for sink with a filter in my pitcher. Husband now eats left overs for lunch instead of spending $30 - $45 a week in lunch can run over $100.00 a month.
      Well I have more cuts I have done and still can not get out of debt. I know it will take a few years and hope it happens soon.

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