- Galtime.com | Helping Kids Succeed | Tue, Sep 18, 2012 2:00 PM EDT | Comments
By now, your college freshmen have been away from home for about two weeks and you and they are adjusting in different ways and at different rates.
It's not that easy, is it? When I dropped my daughter off at college I felt that she was being kidnapped by the school but I couldn't exactly figure out why I was paying so much money in tuition to her kidnappers. Gosh, I was stressed, excited, and confused.
I may be a psychologist, but I am a mother too with all of those confusing thoughts and feelings that come along with motherhood.
So, I too had the urge to text my daughter constantly during those first few weeks of college to see that she was eating, sleeping, and making friends. I can tell you from my role as a mom and psychologist what is helpful and what is not so helpful during the first few weeks of transition to college.
1. Ask your kids...Read More »
- Babble.com | Helping Kids Succeed | Fri, Sep 14, 2012 5:37 PM EDT | CommentsI'm a soccer dad. Well, not yet. Starting tomorrow, I will be though. To this point, all I've been is a Soccer Stepdad. Virtually no difference, but still, it bears mentioning that tomorrow my 4-year-old triplets begin their pursuit of the beautiful game and as of that moment, l officially become a soccer dad. And semantics, notwithstanding, I couldn't be more excited.
I'm a Soccer Dad
But before I tell you why, first let's rewind a bit, shall we?
I've always been into youth sports. Even when I was a bachelor, I coached many a basketball team, attended countless contests in the capacity of proud uncle, and always rooted for my little guys, regardless of whether or not I could lay familial claim to them or not.
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But never did I cheer as proudly as I did when my (step) daughter began her athletic career. Because, as any parent knows, seeing your child compete is the ultimate way to have skins in the game. And that's not al...Read More »
- Woman S Day | Helping Kids Succeed | Mon, Sep 17, 2012 11:33 AM EDT | CommentsBy Linda Rodgers
child with sad face
How to Help Children with Low Self-Esteem
When your child puts himself down, your first instinct may be to blurt out something positive. "It's only natural. We get upset when our kids are upset and we want to make them feel better," says Tamar Chansky, PhD, author of Freeing Your Child from Negative Thinking and a licensed psychologist. But bathing your child in feel-good statements doesn't get at the root of the matter. Kids often blame themselves for circumstances that are mostly out of their power-whether it's being the first in the class to hit puberty or the only one who stutters. Your mission: "Get your child off the hot seat and point out what he can control," says Dr. Chansky. Learn how to raise your child's self-esteem when...Photo by Thinkstock
...she's the shortest kid in the class
If your child feels bad about her appearance, ask her what clothes she'd wear if she were taller or how she'd do her hair-and then suggest she start now, recommends Dr. Ch...Read More »
- Babble.com | Helping Kids Succeed | Thu, Sep 13, 2012 4:19 PM EDT | CommentsIf you're on Pinterest or even on Facebook, chances are you've seen the posting about the teacher who taught her students a lesson about bullying by crumpling, stomping upon, and then trying to straighten out a piece of paper. I have to admit, the first time I read it … I teared up.
Crumpled and Stomped
My mom has told me about bullying that she experienced in 5th grade that still haunts her to this day. She told me that it never leaves you, you may grow up, you may stop being bullied - but the scars of bullying stay with you long after.
This sheet of crumpled, torn and weakened paper … it tore at my heart … it dug deep into my subconscious and refused to let go. The lesson is as follows:
A Lesson on Bullying
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Here's the thing:
Bullying doesn't only happen on the playground - it happens online, on Facebook, on Twitter, in the classroom, in the lunchroom, in the boardroom … it can happen anywhere at any age.
I never experienced bullying as a child - I had my fir...Read More »
- Parenting.com | Helping Kids Succeed | Wed, Sep 12, 2012 3:40 PM EDT | Comments
While fruit drinks, sodas, and other sweet beverages bear the brunt of the too-much-sugar finger-wagging, new research from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention shows that food choices can contribute significantly more added-sugar calories (59 percent) to your child's diet than beverages (41 percent). And almost two-thirds of added sugar is gobbled up at home-not at daycare or school. Most of us aren't doling out Pixy Stix at snacktime, so what gives? "Many parents don't realize that oftentimes when fat is taken out of a food, sugar is put in. So if you're buying something labeled low-fat, it likely appears healthier than it really is," says Marilyn Tanner-Blasiar, R.D., spokesperson for the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics. Read labels carefully and avoid foods with more than 10 grams of sugar per serving. Some sneaky sugars you may have missed:
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Low-Fat Peanut Butter "Manufacturers take out the fat, but to give it the textur...Read More »