20 Tips To Ring in a Sexy New Year

I read a stimulating article from Discovery Health. Drs. Jennifer and Laura Berman presented tips to keep things interesting in your love life. I have included a clip from the article and a link. I like a couple of the suggestions.

One of the tips was to create a Fantasy Box for you and your partner. I would be willing to start a fantasy box.
I think it may be empty by the end of the week. Although, it is worth a try.

I admit I lost my concentration when I read the article. I thought how fun some of these tips would be to research. I would love to hear your thoughts. Do you agree with the authors of the article?

I like #1, # 11, and # 15. I did not like # 9. My favorite is # 3. Which tips do you like?

I want to hear from men and women.

What tips have you experimented? What bounties can you offer readers that are not on this list?

Have you ever created a Fantasy box? Would you be persuadable?

Are there any tips you are willing to share, that are not on the list?

Below is a clip from the Article:

http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/articles/twentytips.html

1. Together, take the time to create a "fantasy box." On separate pieces of paper, jot down fantasies, fold
them up, and put them in the box. When the mood strikes you - pull one out at random.

2. Shop for sex toys together - either on-line or in-store. This is a great opportunity for bonding, as well as
revealing what each of you like.
3. Paint each other's bodies with edible paints. Or improvise with something from the refrigerator
like chocolate syrup or whipped cream.

4. Incorporate a small vibrator into your lovemaking. For example, try using it on her while performing oral sex.

5. Never eat a heavy meal right before making love. If you're counting on action later, eat light.

6. Blindfold your partner and focus on different sensations (feathers, ice, oils, etc.)

7. Set the mood with candles, music, dim lights, perhaps some wine. Give yourself permission to take your time
at getting into the mood!

8. Plan a sexual adventure - a surprise night where each must come prepared with a sexual adventure for the
other (be sure to bring all the necessary props and tools). Go crazy, be creative, have a little fun.

9. Keep the underwear on. Instead of rubbing your partner with different sensual materials - rub through them!
Move your hands over one another, try playing with oral sex through lingerie, etc.

10. Wear sexy lingerie under your clothes - or not! Then, go out to dinner and tease your partner with sly little
peeks.

11. Leave a naked picture of yourself in your partner's briefcase or purse to ensure that at some point in the day
they'll get a naughty little surprise.

12. Place a drop of flavored oil someplace special on your body that you know your partner will lick.

13. Try using Altoids - or other peppermint candies - during oral sex.

14. Thrill Sex. Try having sex in "dangerous" places (elevators, cars - even in the garage while the babysitter
is with the kids, airplanes, restaurant bathrooms.)

15. Put a lock on the bedroom door and don't be ashamed to use it! Even with the kids…they really
should learn to knock.

16. Don't forget those Kegel muscles! As your partner withdraws, squeeze the muscles as if you're trying to
keep him in. This will provide more friction for him - and you.

17. Resist the temptation to reach orgasm. Delay it and enjoy the sensuality and eroticism of the act. When this happens it will be that much more intense later.

18. Understand gender differences. Women typically like to be slowly brought to arousal and don't like it when
partners go right for the nipples or the genitals. Men, on the other hand, tend to have one major erogenous
zone - the genitals. One way to accommodate both is for her to provide him with manual stimulation, while
he continues much more slowly on her.

19. For some women, direct clitoral stimulation can be too intense. Try a little to the left, a little to the right. Get
to know your partner. Explore all your options.

20. Maintain eye contact during sex and especially orgasm. This can enhance both intimacy and intensity.