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    3 Times You Shouldn't Text

    Firing off too many messages can kill a budding relationship. We tell you when to step away from the cell. Before you hit send, find out the 10 most annoying texting habits.


    1) When you're drunk.

    Since phones don't come with Breathalyzers, it's up to you to stop yourself from sending a tipsy message - especially one that suggests you two meet up ASAP. "Being too available lets a guy know he has all the leverage," Krieger says. You might come off looking kind of crazy or out of control.


    2) When you're angry.

    It's annoying when a guy flakes, but sending a "Why haven't you called me?!" inquiry makes you look massively insecure. Avoid angry texts once you're in a relationship too. "When it's in writing, you can't easily take it back," Kirschner says. It's even smart to ban bitchy humor, which can sound meaner than it is.

 Warning: If he's trying to make you look like the bad guy, he might just want out of the relationship.


    3) When you've already texted him that day.

    Once you're in an ongoing relationship, you may be tempted to rely on texting as a regular form of communication, and there's nothing wrong with staying in touch that way sometimes. In fact these naughty e-notes will turn him on in 10 words or less. But electronic communication discourages phone conversations and one-on-one time. Also, guys like brief updates, not a blow-by-blow of your life.


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    45 comments

    • Raynie8  •  2 years 4 months ago
      #1 should be when you are driving. It's so stupid to think you can do these things at the same time.
    • Gary  •  2 years 4 months ago
      "Know this my beloved brethren. Let every man be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger." James 1:19 Sounds like the same wisdom, just that it was said 2,000 years ago. Some things never change!
    • F.A.  •  2 years 4 months ago
      Good to share. I have not done that and hope not to in the future.
    • dee  •  2 years 4 months ago
      :-) hi there Lisa... just fyi, texting with CAPS LOCKED (large letters) is considered not very polite as it means you are shouting:) funny one, but true :) So, if you are drunk and shouting - ouch!:-)But if you are angry and don't want to use aggressive language, use CL instead...
    • RD  •  2 years 4 months ago
      That's why I'm not dating any guy right now (nor plan to). Too many rules. Too many rules for women; how come we don't send these tips to men, btw? How come it's okay to tell a woman she can't say this, or do that, or to be a mind-reader so she doesn't upset her boyfriend, but it's okay for guys to upset their girlfriends? Texting while drunk is stupid - for BOTH genders. Period!

      Women are just as much to blame because they let it happen to themselves; they want relationships because they want love and commitment; yet, they sacrifice those needs to satisfy the jerks who don't want those things. When are you going to wake up, ladies? I'm a woman who woke up learning from other people's mistakes, and proudly so. I'm proud that I'm not a slut, glad that I'm not a single mother, and healthy because I don't have any STDs. I'll wait to get involved until I find one of those rare ducks who actually wants more than a lay - not sure if they exist anymore, but I guess anything's possible. But if not, that's fine - I'd rather be alone than unhappy. Too much hypocrisy these days for me to be interested to get in "the game".

      Sorry if I offended anyone, but it needed to be said. Too much of this crap happening in the world today to ignore. I'm not going to add to the problem by becoming a part of it.
    • Emmanuel  •  2 years 4 months ago
      It is TRUE. I have been close to a guy that lost his girl friend, just because she got angry at receiving numerous text messages.
    • Trini  •  2 years 4 months ago
      Yup...I'm guilty of the angry texting...don't text when you're angry PERIOD because your response to a text message can carry an angry tone even though you may not be mad at that particular person...well depending on the message...fight the temptation!
    • Appletini  •  2 years 4 months ago
      I only text when it involves alcohol. Most guys like to share beer, or even better if you bring beer.
      more if there is a game on.
      That is, the only appropriate time to txt really.
      Cuz most guys don't like txt drama.
    • motherof3  •  2 years 4 months ago
      Also, sometimes their is a delay in text messages. They dont always come right away. Had this problem with a friend one night. I sent the text at 9 and she didnt get it til 12.
    • Lisa Mari  •  2 years 4 months ago
      I HAVE SUCH A BAD HABBIT OF TEXTING WHEN I AM DRUNK AND NO GOOD HAS COME OF IT-I HAVE DONE HARM TO RELATIONSHIPS THIS WAY FOR SURE. ALSO, I TEXT TO AVOID TALKING ON THE PHONE AND I THINK THAT ALSO HAS PUT PEOPLE OFF. I'M GLAD I READ THIS ARTICLE BECAUSE IT MADE ME MORE AWARE OF MY BAD TEXTING MANNERS AND HOW IT IS ACTUALLY EFFECTING MY RELATIONSHIPS.
    • BrienneP  •  2 years 4 months ago
      Yeah.. vodka and ambien = bad!!
    • A Yahoo! User  •  2 years 4 months ago
      TRUE
    • Mary  •  2 years 4 months ago
      Very true!! I texted my male friend telling him if he needed some heat, and luckily he stopped me before I said more. Which also proved to me that he can be trusted even more, and didn't take advantage of my status. Stay away from the cell pone when drunk
    • Quentin  •  2 years 4 months ago
      I have been married to my wife for 4 years. Everytime we get into an argument she texts me how she feels instead of telling me face to face. A couple of days ago it happend again, this time I ripped my cell phone in half in front of her. If we can't sit down and settle something face to face instead of sending text just forget it!! (The bad thing is we were in the same room no further than 3 feet away from each other).
    • iPhoneCash  •  2 years 4 months ago
      True.Text messages are easily misinterpreted.Even if it was not your intention,they can come off as mean,crude,rude and angry.If you are angry,its better not to text.My Ex-girlfriend used to annoy me with angry texts and I was also guilty of sending meaner counter-attacks that broke her apart,such that she would cry about how much my text hurts when we meet.It became a cycle,but she was the first one to send paranoid texts that didnt help to bring the gentleman out of me. However,your article has helped me a lot.I will never make destructive counter-attacks again.They only make me feel guilty when the woman gets hurt.But they are sometimes good for creating sexual tension.I am not a guy who starts wars but when provoked,I can be really mean.Most women like testing a guy who is slow to anger.
    • 'Gelas Aziegbe  •  2 years 4 months ago
      Angry texting....gush, guilty as charged. It has done me more harm than good. When I am angry and send a text, I bare my mind and pour out my anger like a venom. Most times it is after i'm done with the texting that I start regrettng every bit of my action. Whenver you are angry, pleeeeeease keep the phone away as far as possible!!
    • Marshall  •  2 years 4 months ago
      Please don't forget when he's at work. It's one thing to send a line or two throughout the day, but inevitably you will be let down because we get busy.
    • ♥13♥  •  2 years 4 months ago
      i try not to be around ppl period when im angry let alone my fone but i have to do somethin readib helps or watchin tv and yellin at the carters it takes it a away!!!
    • MAELIFIC BONE  •  2 years 4 months ago
      How many turn-ons will he get when he's watching you W#$%^S in bed with another?? Move to Haiti, and off yourselves. Quick.
    • sith  •  2 years 4 months ago
      how about not texting at all. If what u have to say isn't worth a phone call, don't bother.

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