If you're looking to get your partner in bed and have that night of intimacy and lovemaking and sex that you both are aspiring to, you really do need to set the stage. It's not going to happen just because you both want it to, but it will happen if you take the time and make the effort to set the temperament and set the stage and the environment. So, what can you do?
#1 Put the music on in the background. If you're sitting at home on the couch, if you're in the bedroom, if you're out to dinner, tune into the music going on around you and start to connect to each other around that.
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#2 The next thing you want to do is set the scene. So, flowers always enhance the background as does a nice bottle of wine. It can't hurt to toast to each other and to the time you're spending with one another, And, some good food---something to literally whet your appetite. Something that you're sharing actually will set the stage for whetting your appetite to share each other later on in the evening.
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#3. You really do want to voice your desire to spend the time and be with your partner, letting your partner know, "You really do look terrific tonight." A compliment, letting your partner know you find him or her attractive and that you want to be with him or her will go a long way.
#4 is often the most overlooked. What is it and why is it important?
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