BollywoodShaadis.comMarriage is not just one of the biggest things in one's life but the start of a new one. Your first night is the beginning of it all and it is quite important that it's one to be remembered and cherished. Expectations run high and both want the best time. It's understandable to be a little nervous. The first night will be a lasting memory in both of yours life and you not only want to make a good impression on your partner but also a loving one. Well, they don't call it the first night for nothing; do they! So here are a few tips on how to woo a woman on your first night.
1) Take it slow
It is understandable and natural to be anxious and restless about getting physical on wedding night. However, if you pounce in and expect the same from your partner you might be in for an unpleasant gesture. Take it slow and gently. Remember it is not about good sex or a good time here; it's also about building a relationship and a life. So take your time.
2) Make her comfortable
It is important onthe first night to make your wife comfortable. You must remember, she is asequally (or more) nervous as you are. She may also be tired and exhausted from the lack of sleep from the previous night; Marriages are a hectic thing. So, first try to soothe her a little. Make the nervousness disappear. Talk to her like a friend, share a few jokes, comfort her and compliment her.This will relax both of you.
3) One step at a time
Start with a little flirting and take it from there. Start with complimenting her (you're beautiful, you've a pretty smile etc...).Make eye contact, smile. Wait till she feels well and her shyness dissolves. Start with a little touching (like her hands) and if it goes well steal some little kisses. Be a gentleman and let your partner set into the right mood of the wedding night.
4) Be yourself
The most important thing for your first night is to be yourself and let love take over. Don't try to be Superman or Jim Carrey, to impress her. Be genuine to yourself and to your partner.
The joy of making love the first night is unforgettableas it's a night of commitment, care and trust.
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