How Can You Know For Sure That They Love You?
Posted by Jesse De La Hoz for BounceBack.com
How do you know? I mean, it's not like a clear sign has been handed down from generation to generation, at least not in my family. But how do you, as a person, know? How can you tell someone loves you? Use these 5 subtle clues to know that he or she may have fallen in love with you.
1. You light up my life
Have you noticed every time you enter a room, your special person has an instant smile on their face? Do they continue to talk to you and tell you to hurry back when you are leaving? Don't dismiss this as a honeymoon phase. These could be signs that their feelings for you are stronger than you think.
2. How are you doing?
Does he or she always want to let you know what's going on in their life? One would think that a person would constantly ask how your day is going to show interest. But by them letting you know how their day went, they are including you in what's going on in their life because they want you to be a part of it.
3. Killing you with kindness and compliments
An easy way to make someone feel special is with a compliment. But constant compliments and acts of kindness really tug at the heart of someone's feelings. Is it your heart or theirs? That could be a strong sign that their feelings are deep.
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4. You are my future
You're a long-term not a short-term. Is he or she constantly talking about your future plans as a couple. Are they constantly asking about marriage, kids and where you both see each other years from now? That could be another strong sign of love for you.
5. Always making you smile
A clear sign someone has strong feelings for you is how they make you feel. A person in love will constantly want to make the other person feel happy. And nothing makes a person in love happier than putting a constant smile on his or her face.
So if you are wondering if love is in the air, use these 5 signs to give you a clue. If you light up their life when they ask you how you're doing, and will stop at nothing to put a smile on your face while talking about your future and feeding you compliments, then you just might have found love.
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