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    6 Easy Ways to Seduce Your Man

    Seducing a man can feel really intimidating. What do you do when you're finding it hard to get your man into your bed? How do you get a man into bed? What tips and tricks for seducing a man are there?

    Here are some simple ways to seduce a man, get him into the bedroom and keep him there.

    1. Flirt coyly. Sure, it's been awhile since you've practiced your coy flirting maneuvers, so now is the best place to dust them off and get them back into rotation. Soon enough, you'll find the coy flirting to be a turn-on -- for both of you.

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    2. Give him your attention. It doesn't matter if you've been with your man a dozen years or five minutes, men love it when women pay attention to them. Attention to what, you ask? Everything -- what he likes, how he likes it, and what he wants in the bedroom.

    3. Confidence is king (or queen). I know I've said it a million times if I've said it once, but men dig confident women. There's very few things a man finds hotter than a woman who knows who she is, what she wants, and isn't afraid to tell him.

    4. Talk dirty to me. Okay, so the dirty talk might make you feel a bit squeamish, but guys are visual thinkers. So, if you're trying to get him into bed, lose those inhibitions, and tell him what you'd like him to do.

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    5. Touch him. No, not like that (at least, not in public), but tease him by running your hand up and down his arm, caress his hand, or rub his back. It'll get his motor running!

    6. Tell him what you want. Being assertive and up front about your wants and needs may be one of the most important lessons to learn. Men like it when women tell them what they want from them in the bedroom (and out). Tell him what turns out on and off. Tell him how you like it. Pretty soon, he'll be all over you.

    What are the ways YOU recommend for seducing a man?

    Image via nowhere Zen New Jersey/Flickr

    Written by Aunt Becky of CafeMom's blog, The Stir.

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    13 comments

    • Doug S  •  Annapolis, Maryland  •  3 months ago
      Lose the cigarette.
    • Unknown  •  Pleasanton, California  •  3 months ago
      How about this tip: "don't look like the girl in the picutre."
      • erica 3 months ago
        yeah, if i was a guy i wouldn't be seduced by the girl in the pic either
    • Frank  •  Ellensburg, Washington  •  3 months ago
      I didn't realize that it was that hard to get your man into bed? If you consider him "your man", there must be some attraction already.
      • Andrea 3 months ago
        Some men allow work and family stress to interfere with their sex drive. My last boyfriend did this all the time. I seriously had to work at getting him in the mood and let me tell you...that is NO fun!
      • Frank 3 months ago
        I guess I was too much on the other side. 9 of the 10 years I was married, I had a 1 day window a month. I didn't miss it often, but if I was on the road or had to work late, I was out till next month. But, life goes on and the last year of my marriage it wasn't even worth the 1 day.
      • Andrea 3 months ago
        Frank - That's sad :(.
    • A Yahoo! User  •  Blair, Nebraska  •  3 months ago
      where is "get naked"?
    • mel  •  La Crosse, Wisconsin  •  3 months ago
      In order to get my hubby moving there is just one word - boobs. Wear a cute shirt, all done.
    • Doug S  •  Annapolis, Maryland  •  3 months ago
      It cannot be that hard to seduce a man. Sure, maybe to get him to notice you in a bar or at a party, maybe to get him to ask you out. Maybe even to get him to commit to be your boyfriend. But, to get him into bed? Not hard at all. Pay attention to him. Touch him, innocently at first, then start pushing the envelope. Any man that this does not work on in the course of an evening has issues.
    • Andrea  •  Boynton Beach, Florida  •  3 months ago
      1. Flirt Coyly: I send him sexts; 2. Give him your attention: I listen when he speaks;
      3. Confidence is King: I'm with him, so I'm confident he likes me; 4. Talk Dirty to Me: I always said, "Master's wish is my command!"; 5. Touch Him: Oh I touched him; and
      6. Tell Him What You Want: I text him what I want, I tell him what I want and I show him what I want :).
      • George Jetson 3 months ago
        Andrea sometimes you seem to be the only woman on the web who is a woman. also you seem to know when to be a lady and when to be a woman. many of them have no idea what the hell's going on.
      • Andrea 3 months ago
        George - Thank you for the compliment :)
    • George Jetson  •  3 months ago
      this is great; it's one thing to get a man but if you don't know what to do with a man after you get one... input...ABORT THE MISSION....input...It may be relative, let your sister take care of him...input...learn to knitt...input...forget about it.
    • REB  •  Port Orange, Florida  •  3 months ago
      Woody !!
    • Stephen  •  Atlanta, Georgia  •  3 months ago
      These are all important to a degree, but I can't stress enough #6. Every woman is different and I can't read minds, so giving some sort of feedback goes a long way. Overall, though I don't really think it's that hard to seduce a man. For me a smile with extended eye contact and maybe a little touching on the arm or hands and I am good to go.
      • Andrea 3 months ago
        Yeah, but you have to be sexually attracted to her for that to work. So what bar do you hang out at? lmao
      • Stephen 3 months ago
        Actually, I don't really hang at at bars too often. However, this did work when I was chatting with a woman in the row in front of me at the Hawks/Bulls game, well until she disappeared late in the third quarter. Also, worked at the Super Bowl party I was at.
      • Andrea 3 months ago
        Stephen - You da man! LOL. Good job. Hopefully you will call the woman from the Superbowl party. Don't wait that stupid 72 hour time frame. I assume if a guy waits to call me then he's not that interested. Good luck!
    • Planner  •  3 months ago
      All good straightforward suggestions. #6 is SO hard for women is seems but its SO good for their relationship if they do, at first anyway. #4 if done often enough will excite almost any man, but it has a learning curve....just remember crude is not dirty...dirty is much more seductive than crude. #5 is a must. Just let us know you like us, or whatever stage of relationship your in with us...but don't think ignoring us is going to "let you off the hook" or us feel ok with it. You want to leave us fend for ourselves...OK, but don't be #$%$ when we fend with someone else who did what this article suggests..and I don't care what age your man is or how long you been married.
    • Red Hornet  •  3 months ago
      This article expects too much. Really, all you have to do is say, "so, let's have sex" and wallah, you have seduced your MAN. Now, if it is a woman you are trying to seduce, then yes, you actually need to put some effort into it.
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