The 7 Worst Things You Can Say to Your Husband ... And Probably Do

I have lived a long time and seen it all, over the past and up to the present. One thing that has always been an issue is the lack of respect couples have towards one another. Respect. So simple...a foundation to a wonderful marriage. Love is built upon respect. He respects all that she does to simplify his life, she respects him for being a loving, considerate and doting husband. Mutual love and respect always is appreciated. He wants to see her smile, she wants to see him satisfied. Companionable pleasure in one another. She sees he is running down and needs some alone time, he notices she has been carrying a heavier burden around the house. Mutual sharing of responsibilities equates to consideration. Consideration is a union of solidarity built into the marriage of love based upon respect. He can't live without her, she can't bear being away from him. Familiarity along with mutual responsibility achieves strength in unity. Now, that is a force to reckon with! All based upon mutual respect and long "living" (lasting) love. We can all achieve that as long as it is understood, acknowledged, appreciated and reciprocated. We all deserve love...just appreciate the forces that go into building a sound and happy marriage. Love and respect one another, please. It is never too late. I wish you the very best.

THE LOTTERY CHANGES LIVES

A husband says to his wife...... "What would you do if I won the lottery?"
She says...."I would take half of your winnings, then leave you."

"Excellent," he replies...."I won 12 bucks, here's $6, now get the f. out."

The worst thing is, what is unsaid but percolates in the heart!

The one that has killed my marriage is, " You need to find a better job". Meaning, "you don't make enough to suit me". My wife has maxed out her credit cards ( again) and I'm tired of paying for them. This time she's gone further than before, and we are about to loose it all. GUYS- it doesn't pay to stay with a lazy assed materialistic woman who expects you to carry her debt. I've been knowing this, but I stayed because of the kids. Now they are old enough to handle life, and if not; too #$%$ bad. I'm soon to be gone, and she hasn't a clue.

My husband takes out the trash on his own, helps me with the dinner, cooks sometimes and pays the bills. He treats me like a queen and I love him, the end :-D

You know what my wife had our children and works so why can't I do some cleaning cooking household repairs it's only fair to share the workload makes a better and happy home we'll be married 32 years in a couple of months and no arguments lol.

Boy ... I'm FM, been married for 35 years ... I have never even thought of saying such things like this to my husband ... much less actually saying them. Respect is a "earned quality" from both sides of the relationship.

She says, "My gynecologist says I can't have sex for 2 weeks". He says, " What did your dentist say?"

Italian Proverb: The best marriage is between a blind woman, and a deaf man.

And why do women always leave th seat down?

Always and Never are the two worst words to use during a disagreement or at any time. My Mother once told me that one secret to a good marriage is to know when to keep your mouth shut. Well, Mom, I've been married 33 years and I'll still working on the keeping your mouth shut part!

When you life is under intense stress, and everything is falling apart, it is so easy to focuse on the bad, esp. about your significant other. Yes I am guilty of the above, but we want to make our marriage work, so reading stuff like this really opens your mind. Very Interesting. THANK YOU.

Hey -- this guy you live with is not just your sounding board, breadwinner and stud service. He's your best friend, or should be. More than half of this stuff you would never dream of saying to a close friend. Maybe that's old fashioned, I don't know. Sure works for me.

Sorry -- my husband and I must be doing something wrong. We've been married for almost 50 years, and I don't recall EVER saying ANY of these things to him. What kind of clods are you gals marrying?

Sounds to me like some of these couples really need to get to marriage counseling. I've only been married for 3 years, but there have been plenty of squabbles. Fortunately, none of them were over any of the reasons listed here. We have learned good communication skills and RESPECT each other to know that each of us work very hard to keep our home a happy home. It's not always about a Happy Wife Happy Life attitude. It's about communicating on what each other's needs are. He works long hard days to provide for the home and I work long hard days to make sure the home is clean and peaceful so we can relax and enjoy each other at the end of the day. We both have jobs, they're just different. Hopefully this can show some you out there that not all marriages are unhappy ones. I love my husband very much and know that some days will be better than others, but that's just life in general.

I learned that I couldn't live with women like that. My divorce was the happiest day of my life. The bitchin finally was O V E R. I am a billion times happier as a single man with my dog, boat, house and a flat screen in EVERY ROOM ...yes even the bathrooms. I do what I want, when I want and even though I have ot pay alimoney....it's still worth it. Alimoney reminds me of why I stay single.

my wife thiks she is above saying or doing anything wrong,sometime I hate the day I made that crazy ask her to marry me,LORD help us I do,nt know how much more I can take, THIS IS NOT A JOKE I NEED ALL OF YOUR PRAYERS.

Dear God, I'm glad I'm not married.

Sounds like my mother. She was always nailing herself to a cross. That martyr act got real old.

i have never said any of those thigs to my husband,but i have seen my friend do something thats not right.she scalded her man infront of his friends over the dishes and housework.this something that should not be done.dont yell at your partner infront of others.