Dear Em & Lo,
I need a little advice. My boyfriend was in an accident and now he is paralyzed. We can still have sex with the help of erectile shots, which make his penis hard. The problem is, I have to be on top and do all the work. Is there anything out there that might help? Please help! My legs are in the best shape of my life, but they get tired quick, and the shot lasts longer than I can do the work.
--Tired on Top
We're really sorry to hear about your boyfriend. But we're really happy to report that we have an answer for you! Pictured above is the Bodybouncer, a device that promises to "take the gravity out of sex." We were sent a freebie a while back when we were researching our book Sex Toy: An A-Z Guide to Bedside Acccessories, and we can attest to its campaign promise. He lies under it, you sit on top, and the handy hole lets you, er, connect. We'll let Bodybouncer.com explain the rest: "Just the slightest flexing of her thighs sends her gliding up and down--gently and sensually--yielding an erotic connection with astonishing potency." In other words, sex that doesn't leave you feeling like you just spent an hour on the Thighmaster. Now you know what to ask Santa Claus for! We'll remind him that nice girls use sex toys, too. Oh, and when your shiny new toy arrives, be sure to stash it discreetly, lest you find yourself explaining the device to a visiting in-law, as Em's guy once did.
Em & Lo
P.S. This is, of course, just one simple idea. For a slew of other options, from positions to props, check out The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability, co-authored by the wise and sweet Cory Silverberg of About.com's sexuality section.
Photo via Bodybouncer.com
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