So, I have been seeing this guy since early December. We have been talking almost every night and do stuff together as often as we can. I have three boys and he is a single guy, no kids and divorced. He travels a lot for his job, which is cool with me. So, the other night we were talking on the phone (he was in Nashville) and my oldest son came in to say goodnight. Now, my son and my boyfriend happen to have the same name. While I was saying good nite to my son, I told my son that I loved him (an every night conversation) and my boyfriend says I love you too. Apparently he hasn't caught on that I was having a conversation with my son. I wait a couple seconds and tell my son that my bf loves him too! Not knowing if the bf was joking or not! So, the bf says "Oh, you weren't talking to me?" I quickly changed the subject because I'm not sure what really just happened. The next morning I text him to tell him to have a good day and his reply was I meant what I said. Yeah, after three months. Later the same day, his cousin calls me to let me know that over the weekend he was telling her sister about this amazing woman with three kids that he is dating and how he loves the kids and thinks so much of this woman. His cousin is a friend of mine, long before there was an "us". So, I have a talk with him on Sunday asking if he really knows what he is getting into, especially since I have three children. His reply was "How do you think I'm doing?" I said you are doing fine. He said well, is that your seal of approval and I said yes. He then said, well, do you want to keep going then? I said, well you threw me off the other night when you said that. He said that is how I feel, is that ok with you? Well, of course it's ok, I can't change how he feels. But, I'm worried that it's only been just three months. Now, we are both grown adults and have great jobs and I am a pretty independant woman. He is great with the kids, and always asks about them and does stuff with and for them. When he is out of town, he brings each of them a gift of some sort. I have yet to say the words back to him, but he hasn't pressured me either. We haven't even "gone all the way" yet! We have been close, but not quite there yet, and he is gone most of this month for work. Today I texted him and asked if he wanted to do lunch (he is leaving again on Thursday) and I still have not gotten a reply and it's almost 8 pm. So, now I wonder if he is regretting what he said and doesn't know how to take it back or what! Why do men have to be so complicated? And they say that we are!!! Some advice would be nice!
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