Can you be married to a wonderful man and still cheat?

Please be patient, I have never posted a blog before. Thought that it looked fun, so thought that i would try it.

Okay guys, I need a little help here. I have been with my husband for over 20 years. I am not unhappy in any way, shape or form.

I have met someone, who at first was just for "fun." We both knew going into the relationship that we were both connected with someone else and in no way leave the situation.

Well, I have fallen for, "V" and I think that he has for me as well, but not sure. He knows how I feel, but he has told me on occasion that this was and is supposed to be no emotion involved.

We have a friendship, we talk about life, work, kids, work. we ask each other for advice. We go to lunch, and meet. I have 1 friend that knows about him, his cousin knows about me.

I won't leave my situation, nor will he. My situation is just as complicated as his, just a different complicated.

How can I tell if he feels the same for me as I do for him?