When it Comes to Being a Heartbreaker, Which is Bad or Worse?

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There are mean folks out there. And if you haven't had your heart broken yet, you are either a teenager, or have been avoiding people all together. Where's your cave? I'd like to move in with you.

Let's be honest: there is no black and white when it comes to relationships. There is merely a lot of gray. Gray clouds. Gray matter. Gray smoke-- you get the drill.

When it comes to doing the doozy of bad behavior, what is bad and what is worse? Better put, what is down right unacceptable? Here are the categories:

Cheating on someone vs. being passive aggressive?
Um, cheating is probably the ultimate form of passive aggression, and if you're unaware of the symptoms, passive aggressive means that you don't tell someone when something's bothering you, you SHOW them with your acts of revenge. I vote cheating in this department.

Apathetic or nagging?
Are you more likely to ignore your significant other because you've grown tired of them, or do you perpetually chisel away at them using verbal attacks? It seems this question is the Yin and Yang of marital behaviors. Well, at least, in bad marriages. I vote that apathy is worse than nagging. At least the nagger wants to have a better relationship. The apathetic person has "given up" on trying to make things better.

Becoming a sex addict or being frigid?
Are you the type to head to the computer to check out porn online, or do you say "no" to your partner for any reason possible, including: "the stars aren't aligned right tonight, I'll pass!" Well, this is a tough one. No extreme is good, hence the idea of having a "gray in between" rather than the "black and white" way of thinking. I say, you sex addicts should put the porn down and grab your significant other and 'do it like they do on the discovery channel.' Any frigid people out there should let go of their inhibitions, and just have a good time, without reservations. What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas, but, what happens in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom. The bedroom is like a "mini-Vegas," doncha know?

Keep the romance alive!

Forgetting a special date or not making plans for a special date?
If you know a special occasion is coming up, make plans. Enough said. Anyone who claims they "forgot," is either lying, stupid, or making excuses for not making plans, and doesn't love you enough to "make plans." Enough said.

Says, "I love you" and doesn't mean it, or loves you and doesn't say it?
Hmmmm. That's a good one. I hate it when people say things and don't back up their words with actions. But it's also frustrating when people want something in life, but are too cowardly to follow through with their actions. Here's a crazy thought: say what you mean and mean what you say. Only tell someone you love them when it's sincere. But from what I've researched, you know someone loves you by their actions. So, make sure you show someone you love them, when you do, rather than say empty words that you don't really mean. Does that make any sense?

What are some things that make your skin crawl in relationships? What is worse than what I've mentioned?