What I've posted here, are two very simple facts about ALL Heterosexual men...and why it's so much sweeter, to go younger:
FACT I: Men DO NOT just want sex...
Yes, every man wants to get laid right, and as often as he can, however, men are just as lonely as women, and just because a man has an emotion that he cannot define, doesn't mean that he isn't just as in-need of an Actual Connection. If the world were a perfect place, women would always be in the mood for sex despite a long 16-hour-day, and men would always bring flowers or candy home on any given weekday for no reason at all---THAT is Never-Never Land---so you've got to work with what you have.
This is an underlying reason as to why A YOUNGER MAN is such a plus with an older woman: because YOUNGER MEN need acceptance and OLDER WOMAN have the ability to give genuine affection without manipulation, mind-games and prissy demands...and MOST YOUNGER MEN gladly give up their Player's Card for an emotively secure, independent, intelligent woman who loves to give oral sex, who doesn't blow-up his cell every time he's out with his boys, who understands that space/time-apart bring two people closer emotionally and who can cook like she is Rachel Ray's understudy.
The very best way to 'get' any younger man, is to give him all your chick-goodies in an 'invisible love-wrap', because chances are the last girl who told him she loved him, screwed around on him, used him for his money, used him like he was a work-horse tool, disrespected his Momma, hated his friends or was, in general, a total Nightmare from which he could not wake. So---for him, sex is just simpler than love, cuz love hurts; sex means he's cumming, and that feels good, even if she is a skank.
The only way to turn a thing around, is to SEE, ACKNOWLEDGE and then DEAL. The only way to give a younger man the love he wants, is to show him, and NOT tell him. At any rate, you'll find it's so much easier to 'get through' to a young stud, than it is to an old workhorse.
FACT II: Men Never, Ever Recover From a Badly Broken Heart...
Imagine a man's emotions as you would a chocolate pie---and that every time a piece gets taken-out via a bust in his heart, what is left, is an empty space. This is one main reason that OLDER MEN are such an emotional hazard in a Romantic Relationship...because by time you get an OLDER MAN, his emotive abilities regarding love are, perhaps, only 1/4th of a pie.
The YOUNGER THE MAN, the better the chance you have in getting most of him.
Emotionally, most women are unbreakable. We have the strength and the ability bounce-back, regardless of the situation or odds, where-as emotionally, despite outward appearances, men are so fragile and so very breakable. I have a 12-year-old son, and the other day he came home from school genuinely upset that a girl in his class, who usually sits by him in gym, went and sat by another boy. I know the girl's mother, so I called to see if perhaps Jacob and she had had a misunderstanding. Turns-out that someone had left a wad of gum in the place right next to where Jacob was sitting, and being a typical male, my son had not seen the gum wad, but Julia had, and so she just plopped down next to someone else, whom just happened to be another boy. I explained all this to my son---but had I not had the opportunity to find-out what had happened, Jacob would have spent weeks wondering what he'd done wrong, and why Julia didn't want to sit by him that day.
If you have male children, I STRONGLY suggest that you BE BOLD AND BLUNT with your boys on EVERY ISSUE REGARDING FEMALES, AS IT IS NEVER TOO LATE OR TOO EARLY TO BEGIN. My son, at 12-years-old, will not tolerate prissy, holier-than-thou girls, in fact, one of the prettiest 7th graders asked him, a 6th grader to a dance, and he turned her down because, my son explained to me, "She is a Mean Girl, Mom, who cares if she has a big bra size?" Jacob has seen the movie "Mean Girls", so he already knows what type of female to look out for. I'm trying to train my son to be as emotionally strong as he can be, in order to avoid him being only 1/4 of an emotional pie later-on in life, when he meets a girl who wants to love him. I want my son to know that love DOES NOT have to equal intense emotive pain and disaster.
All-in-all, unless you're an older chick who has been lucky enough to be with her man since high school or you got him at a stage in his life where he wasn't too screwed-up emotionally by the last crazy woman who'd 'trained' him so badly that he ASKS PERMISSION for pepperoni on his pizza instead of JUST TELLING YOU WHAT HE WANTS or who was so badly treated that he thought a set-timer came with sex and he honestly believed that a man cumming in a woman's face was an act ONLY done in porn---than kudos to you, you lucky gal.
As for the rest of you: GO YOUNGER. It's just so much sweeter to cuddle-up to a lively, slobbering puppy, than to a grumpy old dog.