by Aaron Traister, REDBOOK
DEAR WHYS GUY:
How often is my hubby hoping I initiate sex? What cues should I clue into that he wants me to take charge?
-Rachael, CA
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DEAR RACHAEL:
There is never a wrong time for sex, and there is never a wrong time to initiate sex. Seriously, I could lose my big toe in a gruesome lawn-mower accident, and if Karel suggested we have hours of lovemaking before heading to the hospital, I'd take her up on it.
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After marriage, most guys don't worry about who's taking charge, we just want sex. Just remember this handy acronym: SAG -- Sex Always Good. You probably wouldn't be able to keep up if I told you how much sex it would actually take to keep your man happy, so just worry about having enough sex to keep yourself happy, and you'll be all set.
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Need help decoding odd male behavior? Redbook columnist Aaron Traister, who lives in Philadelphia with his wife and two kids, is our resident male who is happy to answer any questions you might have about the mind of a man. Either leave your questions in the comments or email him at redbook@hearst.com with Whys Guy in the subject. Letters, emails, and comments may be edited for clarity and length.
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