by Aaron Traister, REDBOOK
DEAR WHYS GUY:
My fiancé always points out women on TV he thinks are "hot." It really bothers me. Why does he do this? Why not point out how hot I am?
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Karel is sitting next to me as I read your letter and telling me I have no business answering it, because I do the exact same thing. At least let me explain why: I feel weird and guilty when I check out other women, especially because I'm so obviously distracted. So I'm totally honest with her about it in the hope that my honesty will score me some brownie points-which it doesn't.
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My advice? Tell your fiance how much it bothers you. If he's slow on the uptake (like me), force him to watch Twilight movies with you and give him a taste of his own medicine.
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Need help decoding odd male behavior? Redbook columnist Aaron Traister, who lives in Philadelphia with his wife and two kids, is our resident male who is happy to answer any questions you might have about the mind of a man. Either leave your questions in the comments or email him at firstname.lastname@example.org with Whys Guy in the subject. Letters, emails, and comments may be edited for clarity and length.
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