Does your man feel weird about his body? We always think that girls are the neurotic ones, but guys also have fears about the way they look. My old boyfriend used to do the cutest thing....
When he would get up in the morning to go take a shower, he would run from the bed to the bathroom with--get this--his hands covering his bum. It was SO endearing. It was the cutest thing ever to see that he had little body neuroses, too.
The funny thing, though, was that I COULDN'T HAVE CARED LESS. (As you know, I actually like my guys with a little chub.) And he was funny, sweet, wonderful and very attractive. I would never have noticed if his backside were a little chunkier than others. Who cares?!
It was a great lesson for two reasons: a) Guys can be shy about their bodies, so we should be sweet and supportive of them, too, and b) We don't notice their "flaws" so they probably don't notice ours!
Is your man shy about any parts of his body? Or is he super sure of himself (or at least pretending to be?) Do you notice his imperfections or do you not care? Does he tell you about his insecurities? What bothers him about they way he looks? I'd love to hear your thoughts, my dears!
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