The DOs and DON'Ts of Makeup Sex

make-up sex is a myth.

i don't think it's possible to be angry at someone who is naked. :)

That's the last thing on my mind after being angry and still have those feelings no matter how much other communication or sorry has taken place. It takes a good whole day to feel halfway ready to have it again. All it does otherwise is make me feel resentment towards him. I don't want him in my body when I will just feel that way.

'Make-up' sex is for those who are going to break up eventually anyways. The ones who can't have true communication after an argument.

Who usually eats a full meal soon after vomiting?? Hardly anyone at all. They start off with a little drink of water.. crackers, toast, and work towards a full meal. Sometimes it takes a good day to get to the point you're ready for that full meal. That's how sex should be treated after an argument so you don't feel resentment. At least in a marriage.

Hmmm......Does this mean I should pick a fight? We never fight, so what do I do?

I think the key is resolving an argument before actually having sex. I've never really understood the draw to makeup sex.

I agree that Resolving the issue first is a good idea. Because I DEfinetly don't want sex when I am angry. Nothing is more aggrivating than a man wanting to have sex when you both just had an argument..... That's just not the time. Now when both parties have apologized and talked about it and worked it out then the makeup sex is Great! Until then, its a no go.

Makeup sex? I thought it meant your girlfriend is making it all better because your wife is being a b!t@#.

Make-up sex is awesome, I've had some of the best orgasms following a heated argument.

Stupid what a waste..

Makeup sex is always a good thing. Nothing better than taking your frustrations out on each other in a sexual way :).

Does anyone else see this as a contradiction? "DON'T: Use it to reignite the passion in your relationship...If fighting is the only way to create intimacy, then makeup sex is not the solution." and "DO: Have makeup sex to reconnect and enhance intimacy...Take advantage of the surges of hormones and adrenalin pumping through your bod, and put it to good use." I'm just saying...

I absolutely hate makeup sex. It means there was a fight that had to happen beforehand. I hate fighting with my wife. On the couple of times we have had makeup sex, it has been after we both were crying and had made up completely.

It might just be me, but after being mad at my husband the last thing I want to do is go have sex with him.