Do you think that a physical (sexual) affair is worse than an Emotional Affair???
So many people have told me that they think a sexual affair is worse and I would have agreed back several months ago. However, I now have mixed feelings about it because I have seen the damage an emotional affair (no sex) can cause. Especially when the emotional affair goes as far as the two involved connecting in a manor where they think that they are in love with each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together. To me, this is extremely hard to get past because the affair completely involved the heart.
Now on the other side….I believe that you can get past a physical affair a little easier if that is all that it was because it was only physical and didn't involve the heart. Of course there are full blown affairs that are both sexual and emotional but what about the two as separates?
Would you rather find out that your spouse had a physical affair with no emotions or an emotional affair with no sex where they felt they were in love with the person???
