It's awfully tempting to use an online coupon on a first date.
With the right Groupon offer, you can offer a splurge that's otherwise out of reach-the crème brûlée tastes just as rich at half price, right? Even if it's just a neighborhood joint, you're demonstrating thrift and fiscal savvy, and who wouldn't want to see such admirable qualities in a potential mate?
Sorry, but most seasoned daters and relationship experts see it as a mistake. It's considered cheap, tacky, and so unsexy. In the world of dating don'ts, it's right up there with asking for a doggie bag.
I know what you're thinking: who wants to date someone so obviously shallow and materialistic, with such disregard for your circumstances and best interests? Those are valid points, and the experts recommend you hang on to those thoughts for a future date, maybe the third or fourth. The best first dates are about mood, magic, and romance; a big dose of practicality wrecks the atmosphere and brings a couple down to Earth.
Groupon is working furiously to overcome the first date stigma.
The company conjures up its own first dates through its Date Assistant, a free matchmaking service for singles looking to couple up and redeem two-for-one offers. Groupon also brought together unattached-and-looking coupon clippers with an offer of $85 worth of speed dating discounted to $40, which set a Guinness World Record for the largest speed dating event in history.
And then there's Grouspawn.
If a couple uses a Groupon coupon on a first date and subsequently produces a child, they may be rewarded with a $60,000 college fund. Two such couples will be chosen each year, which should help push them past that awkward first date moment-photographed hand in hand with the coupon and the day's newspaper-when the relative strangers/prospective parents gather the requisite documentation. Just in case.
As a general rule, a relationship needs a firmer foundation before couponing can begin. Groupon on a first date and your crush may not respect you in the morning.
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