Have You Begged Your Man to Come Back?

i haven't beged but like a dumb a$$ i wasn't shy about letting him know i still was very open to the fact of us getting back together/i wanted him still. i honestly think he only misses me and thinks of me,when all his others are no place 2be found or have mad him mad. SUXS

I don't agree, True Blue. I am positive that guys miss girls. Take it from the female friend, they do. Just the other day, one of my man's besties, sat and cried to me about a ex who left him three years ago. Guys miss us. Maybe not to the same extremes and shown in the same fashions that females do, but they do. They also have more pride, I think. It's one thing to tell your buddies, or their girls how you feel, but to tell HER how bad you're hurt. That's ALOT harder.

Uuuugh, I did twice when I was 19 and 20, with two different losers. Yeeeah, it's safe to say I was quite codependent then. I cringe when I think about that. NEVER BEG FOR A LOVER BACK UNLESS YOU WERE THE ONE WHO DID THEM SERIOUSLY WRONG. Your intact dignity will thank you for it later.

What a misleading title to an article.

Look, if you want to write ANOTHER article about Britney Spears then at least be honest about it.

Misleading viewers in the title is a thinly veiled attempt to hide the fact that you are a lame tool who panders to pop culture but has no real talent.

And also you're a liar.

Men are not like dogs. Men are wonderful. Maybe if you really liked and respected the men you date you'd have a better experience. Perhaps you should look at yourself first. And there is no loss of self respect to say to someone. I really like you and I would like to give it another try. However begging is another thing.

I was in a relationship for five years with my kids father and i finally woke up and realized that things were not going to get better unless i made it better. i had to let him go and even though i still love him i can not quite just move on yet, its harder when you have to deal with the individual for the sake of the kids, he is a great father, it just hurts that all of the efforts that i tried to make work, did not and now he seems to be happy or convienient with another, i feel like its because he knows that this time i ams serious but i really can relate to melanie feonnie s new song it kills me u gotta check it out. peace. its the quite nights that makes you remininsce on what was once good times.

I think shes retarded men are assholes no different from that.She shouldn't care about him hes just a guy and with her body and looks she can get another one even better!! Man love treating woman like there nothing but if you show man that you don't care at all and there be running to you like nothing its so crazy because it actionally works.

When I first started posting to shine one of the things I blogged about was how a screwed up a relationship. It took him leaving for me to get my head outa my yass! I spent alot of time working on me, I asked him several times to come home, I finally gave him an ultimatium 2 weeks and I wouldn't ask him again..about 3 days later he called and said he was ready to come home..I think our relationship is stronger because of the 6 months we were apart..we didn't appreciate each other..Now no matter how pissed off we are, we don't go to bed mad, nobody sleeps on the couch, if it takes all nite we sit up and talk it out..Before I didn't go to his shows (musician)I sat home and moped..now, if there on the weekend, I go, he even goes shopping with me

Right, so if a MAN begs his partner to take him back, it's endearing and courageous. We've all seen the movies, right?

When a WOMAN begs her partner to take her back, it's pathetic and undignified.

Oh PLEASE. Can we get over these idiotic double standards already? You don't have to be an "insecure little girl" to know who you want and why you want that person.

So get off your smug, self righteous chauvinism already.

Thankfully, I can say no, I've never begged a man to come back, but iwas always the one being dumped.
In my marriage, when we fight or have issues, the longer we're married, the less likely I am to back down or let him off the hook. But still, neither one of us crawl, and I think that's a good thing.
The sad truth about crawling is...it's kind of a sign that you're emotionally lost. I can understand why Brittany is so co-dependant, but she could be so lovely if she embraced herself, for once.

yup. ALL IS GONE. but I deserve that <3 THE GIRL WHO HAS EVERYTHING & YET NOTHING.

i begged an ex back and we got back together but what a waste, we are split again, i say: if you are gonna beg, make sure its worth it

men have pride, they can easily move on , once you broke up w/ them, they can easily get some replacement for you: As they said to the marines, " In every port , report!, In every place replace,,, men are like dogs!,,,,

NEVER LOWER YOURSELF TO BEGGING ! THERE IS TOO MANY PENISES OUT THERE!

I once broke up with a boy after a year with being with each other, i was insecure most of the time we were togther but i missed having attention from him, and i ended up begging for him back. But once i realized i was holding both of us back i had to let him go even though he hated the idea of it. Now we are both free, and we are happier then ever. Moving on from a relationship is hard on both men and women. but sometimes i depends on the person on how long it takes for them to move on.

why would brit even want him back.. i mean look at him and I have never begged any man back, I may have texted to see how they were duin but other that that..I have just as much pride as the next man....

When I broke things off for a short time with my current BF he didn't take it well, in fact he was just beside himself with grief. He begged me to take him back and I did. But it was very sweet the way he was trying to hard to when my affections. Now in your post your saying that Britney is trying to get back together with her agent. Well, she's britney and I just think she has so many problems all the time. I wouldn't take her back If I were her agent. It would be very awkward in deed. She should just move on. But now for us ordinary regular people it is definetly in the cards and possible. If the tables were turned and it was me trying to get him back I don't think it would have been the same. And that is really the truth...

Nope, my in advanced experience in life, I have been kicked to the curb, and I've kicked a many to the curb. I wasn't emotionally connected to them except one, too many fish in the sea to beg any man back.

Yo ladies !men are differnt from you!!! We think sex when you think romance! Not a day goes by that I don't miss my ex wife & I love her stiil but we were just too differnt. I would still give anything to touch her stomach in the morning!!!!!

i never begged a man to come back, i usually broke it off. but i did have men pleading to get back with me, and when i let them it still ended later on... the first time you break up, theres never going back, and it will never be the same