I prefer birthday cupcakes to wedding cake anyway!You already told us what age you want to get married, but are any of you freaking out that you've reached that age and you aren't even dating anyone?
My girlfriend was telling me how upset she is for her upcoming 29th birthday because she always wanted to be married by that age. She's frustrated because she hasn't had a serious boyfriend in years, and she doubts she is going to meet someone and get engaged within the next month (Hey, Khloe did it)! But in all seriousness, she's stressing out because she randomly picked this age years ago as her "I'll be married by then" goal, and now she feels like she's failed at her life "to-do" list.
I can relate: I hate when I set a goal for myself and then miss it, but I told her that marriage can't be given a due date. I know that quick advice didn't help 100 percent, so I told her to focus her energy on something else. And I'm so impressed-instead of dwelling on her birthday as a day to feel like a failure for missing her personal deadline, now she's throwing herself a "30 minus 1" birthday party.
Have you reached your "I Want To Be Married" age? What was it? Did you set a new date, or did you decide to just let it happen when it happens?