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    How to Find Love After 40

    Who says spring chickens make the most beautiful brides? These gorgeous celebs have proven that true love finds us in all phases in life, into our 40s and beyond.

    Dating:

    Gigi Levangie Grazer: After her 17-year marriage ended, the author of Queen Takes King found herself back in the dating pool. She divulged to Bazaar why dating these days is a bit like politics - in order to succeed, you've got to play by the (unwritten) rules.

    • "I learned to play games the way boys do. When I was hurt, I learned not to call, text, instant message, or e-mail. Instead, I waited like a 'snake in the grass.'"
    • "I became a zen master of the koan 'He who cares least wins.' One night, I sat next to a 19-year-old boy at an elegant Hollywood dinner party. We compared dating notes. He was jealous that I had the best excuse of all for avoiding emotional involvement: "I'm still married." He wished he could use that line."
    Find out how her dating candidates fared when election time rolled around.

    Marriage:


    Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher: Perhaps the best-known May-December pairing in recent Hollywood history, Demi was 43 when she married Ashton, 16 years her junior. While she was steaming up the big screen in Ghost, Ashton was still in grade school...Go, Demi! Read more about their home life.



    Sandra Bullock and Jesse James: Sandra, who married husband Jesse at 41, says she's had to learn some lessons in chivalry from her man. "I'm not allowed to open car doors anymore," she told Bazaar recently.



    Marcia Cross and Tom Mahoney: First came love, then came marriage (when Cross was 44), then came a double-decker baby carriage: Twins! Who says you can't have it all in your 40s?



    Mariska Hargitay and Peter Hermann: Mariska, Emmy award-winner and daughter of legendary beauty Jayne Mansfield was 40 when she married Peter Hermann.

    Don't miss 8 more celebs who found love later in life.




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