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    How to have a one night stand with your partner

    I've never been much for the one-night stand. It's always felt too impersonal, especially when I can't remember his name the next morning. Or when, upon bumping into each other on the street, I've had to ask the awkward question, "How do I know you again?" I'm obviously not very good at remembering the "who" part of a one-nighter, making me less inclined to visit the "what" part again. BUT, one-night stands aren't all bad. In fact they're better than affairs, and sometimes only slightly less intimate than relationships. According to a study, there'smore hand-holding and kissing in a one-night stand. More kink, too.

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    I prefer sex while in a relationship these days, but, like Duran Duran sang, a one-night stand can be Paradise (listen to "Rio" for the lyric). Even better, it can be fun if you try it in your relationship. With your partner. I'm not talking cheating either. Here's how:

    Feel like a stranger. Let's start out with the most obvious way to make change. Change how you look. Find a wig with a cut and color you've always wanted to try but could never quite commit to. If you are blonde, wear a jet black wig. Dark hair ladies, go with platinum or fiery red. Have fun with this and your partner will, too.

    Play dress-up. Both of you. Have him wear a pimp suit and you wear a short skirt. Or, you wear a pimp suit and have him dress in a short skirt if that's your thing. Then role-play. Go with any kind of costume, then create scenarios. "Meet" in your backyard (the new neighbor!) or in your basement (the robber!) or even in your car (the hitchhiker!).

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    Get your freak on.A one-night stand allows you to try something you've always been curious about, but afraid of being judged for. Bring out that "get out of a jail free" attitude and do more than talk about your deepest fantasies or a position that's piqued your curiosity.

    Have you ever had a one-night stand with your partner?


    Image via angryjuliemonday/Flickr

    Written by Jamye Waxman for CafeMom's blog, The Stir.

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    15 comments

    • Karen Affeldt  •  10 months ago
      My favorite role play is a prostitute/john type of play and I totally get into the role. I’ll dress up as provocatively as possible, from top to bottom, with all the seductive means I can think of and way too much makeup. Most times we go to his place but sometimes we meet somewhere in public. Sometimes on a street corner other times in a bar. The anticipation waiting for him to pick me up is extremely titillatingly. I’ll walk several blocks from my house and wait for him. Sometimes he calls me after I’ve waited for him and changes the location of our rendezvous so I’ll have to walk a few more blocks to meet him. The feeling is indescribable as people honk and whistle when they drive by, I feel totally exposed. I’ve even been propositioned a few times! He even pays me for the “services” with a little extra shopping money and leaves me feeling like a true slut. I know it’s kind of risky but I know he's watching me somewhere nearby and it's always great fun!
    • Peachy1  •  10 months ago
      way to go, the planner! troll smashing 101
    • Planner  •  10 months ago
      Mr. Z0X, if you got to tell us, it doesn't. You missed the whole point of the article to brag to us, and we don't care.
    • Mr LOL  •  10 months ago
      i don't know about you but my junk stands more than one night.
    • Mauna  •  10 months ago
      I haven't read the article in full, but it sounds like the partner is a regular? How to have a one night stand with your partner???? How about how to have a every nighter with your partner-LOL!
    • Planner  •  10 months ago
      Love this article. My wife and I used to do this all the time..glad to know we aren't too freaky. Best one's she'd dress up very provocative, agree to meet at a bar in a hotel, then we'd "meet" and let everyone think she was a prostitute and that I was picking her up...very exciting. We laugh, have a great time,some bartenders asked her to leave before I got there thinking she WAS a real prostitute, but we liked it. Then it was off to our room where we got our real freak on and had a blast, laughing about the dirty looks we'd gotten the night before in the bar. It is SO good to be married to such an adventureous, loving, woman. Need to go and schedule another "night out" real soon.
    • Runa  •  10 months ago
      I've done it once in which I acted totally out-of-character and dominant. He referred to me as "ma'am," and I called him "you," as if I didn't know his name and didn't care. Turns out we actually liked it a heck of a lot more than we thought we would, so we incorporate elements from that day into our everyday sex lives...though we're on a first-name basis now ;)
    • Liberty  •  10 months ago
      my boyfriend would not want it. tsk tsk tsk.
    • MsHeather  •  10 months ago
      Sexy, have always wanted to do role playing, just can't find a partner to commit to it, lol. Guess mine can get a little freakier than some of these but it runs a tight race with the Robber and basement, lol..... ;)
    • RedStar  •  10 months ago
      I think this is a really good idea to keep excitement in the relationship.
    • .  •  10 months ago
      This should be titled "Interested in Role Play".
      One night stand sounds so cheap! Tisk tisk tisk LOL!!!
    • J.J  •  10 months ago
      Sounds like a good alternative, since I am not really one to want or do one night stands.
    • Ms You  •  10 months ago
      hmmm sounds exciting..i maybe gave it a try..:)
    • Ms You  •  10 months ago
      i gues its gnna be fun but...attempting to do or try real soon lol..god!il be in trouble i gues :)hope not
    • Ms You  •  10 months ago
      i gues its gnna be fun but..let see what happen...attempting to do or try real soon lol..god!il be in trouble i gues :)hope not

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