Are you wondering how to survie a break up and get my ex back?
Going through a break up can be especially tough, especially if your aim is to get back with your ex. You're in pain, you're confused and it seems like everything you do works against you. Well here's some tips you can use to go through this rough time.
One of the first thing you need to realize, is that things aren't going to fix themselves by itself if you want your ex back. You'll have to put in a little bit of work to make it happen. Staying home and feeling sorry for yourself, will not improve the state of your relationship. In fact, if you want to bring it ex partner back you're going to have to be proactive.
When in the breakup situation, what you do and what you say can work against you... So be careful about what you say and what you do because it's easy to make some very grave and dangerous mistakes while it's not always easy to recover from them. The best thing you could do right now, would be to reduce your contact with your ex as much as you can for not more than a month. This gives you plenty of time to think about what went wrong with your relationship and you'll also have the opportunity to set your man to get your ex back.
While away from your ex, surround yourself with people you love, people do care for you and going through this alone without them is much tougher than if you would have your friends and family around you.
Do something you've always enjoyed but something that you perhaps have not been able to do recently.
Remember, when you get back together with your ex boyfriend, you may not have time for your girls nights out and Tupperware parties, so enjoy the things you love and that are not associated with your boyfriend.
For one, they will help you keep your mind off of him. Secondly, you will have a great opportunity to work on yourself, and do things for yourself.
Are you finding that while you were with your ex boyfriend your life has started to evolve around him? Perhaps a little?
Take care of yourself and your needs first. And then you will have a better chance at getting him back.