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    I broke up with my boyfriend, and I worry about running into him. Any advice?

    I broke up with my boyfriend, and I worry about running into him. Any advice?

    Everyone dreads this kind of encounter. I remember avoiding an old flame's favorite spots for months after splitting up. To stay cool in case of a chance meeting, defuse the tension by acknowledging the awkwardness. ("Wow, this is weird!") Keep the conversation brief; there's no need to get into a soul-searching discussion on a street corner. Finally, don't beat yourself up for feeling sad, angry or confused afterward; these emotions are normal. Comfort yourself by calling a friend to vent. Then pat yourself on the back for surviving.

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