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Spotting Lovebirds!Amy asked me asked a fantastic Manhandling question, and her Love Rx is something that EVERY single women needs to know...
AMY'S DATING DILEMMA: How do you ask questions that matter without sounding pushy? Marriage is a requirement for me in a relationship. I want to know if he wants kids (I don't) and if he wants to get married again eventually, (some people won't get married again once they've already done it.) I think it's good to know early on, before time and emotion is invested into a relationship, I just don't know how to bring it up without freaking men out! -- Amy
Alright gals, lean closer, because there's a well-kept secret about men that is guaranteed to save you YEARS of wasted time and heartache.
Man Fact: Men will tell you almost anything about themselves on the first two dates, and then often clam up for the next two years.
That's why the very best time to get important information about a mans relationship goals is right at the beginning of your courtship. If you listen very carefully, men will tell you what they're really wanting from you, and all before Date Two! The following Love Rx will show you how to get important intel from your new suitor without pushing, nagging, or prying! And it won't feel like your even trying.
Your LoveRx: Ask Men The Heartache Prevention Question.
This one little question will absolutely change the way you date...forever. The very next time that you're out with a special someone, don't fall into unfocused flirting. Instead, sip your apple martini, and slip men a little Verbal Truth Serum.
Just smile, and say... "So Clark, I know you've been married before. Do you still believe in 'The Dream"?"
Now listen up, 'cause he'll start singing like a Canary.
He'll actually ENJOY having a theoretical discussion about his relationship goals and his 'unique' romantic philosophy. And now you must pay very close attention.
Man Fact: This is the one and only time that you can ask such a loaded question without it being "heavy" because you can't take the answer to this question personally…yet.
When you toss out this conversational crumb, it will have an amazing Open Sesame affect on men.They will talk start talking a BLUE streak, and be prepared, because it might really surprise you! They'll willingly tell you how they REALLY feel about marriage, divulge it they're financially stable, are adamantly or morally opposed to the state of matrimony itself, or are having way too much fun playing the field right now to even think about settling down.
They'll also reveal the status of prior marriages and custody arrangements, and often (stupidly) confess about their current roster of out of town girlfriends to you, too.
I am so not kidding.
And for all of you women who've only been privy to this type of soul-bearing honesty from men during tearful breakups, I promise that you will be totally stunned. The secret is to ask him what he 'believes" to be true about himself. You'll be amazed to find that men will share candidly about their flaws and even deep emotional problems on a first dates with total strangers.
Flirt Fact: You already know all about you. Dating is to find out all about him, so you can do effective Man Selection.
Man Fact: Asking the Heartache Prevention Question is way more effective than calling the psychic network! Instead of blatantly stating YOUR needs to him and making him feel interviewed, or asking what he 'wants" and making him feel interrogated, asking men what they "believe' is a golden opportunity!
And if you get an answer that you don't like? Just lean in and say "Tell me more! or "Poor you...I can totally see why you'd feel that way!" You need this info! Don't fight, criticize or correct. Let him CONFESS.
TIP: Listen very carefully about how he talks about his exes and be on the lookout for any pet "relationship theory's." He might tell you for example, that that "love doesn't really exist", or that all of his relationships "end up the same way…in court!"
YOUR MISSION: BELIEVE HIM.
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