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    How to Master the Woman-on-Top Sex Position

    It's one of those sex positions that can be totally hot -- the woman on top. It can feel better for you, allow you more control over the speed and depth of the experience, and let your partner to see you in all your sexy glory. So you know about all the good things that come with being on top. What about the bad?

    It's one of those positions that can be very tricky to pull off. Here are a few tips to help you master it:

    First Thing's First -- Have your guy lie on his back on the bed (or wherever you happen to be). Slowly climb on top until you are straddling him with your legs on either side of his hips.

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    Prepare for Entry -- Once you're in position, you can begin to tease him. When he's ready, grab his penis and, using the bed (or back of the couch) for support, lower yourself so you're inside him.

    Keep on Rocking -- Continue bracing yourself with one hand on the headboard as you begin to slowly move up and down, building up some steam. If that's too awkward a position (it may require a little bit of practice), simply rock your hips in slow circles while he's inside you. He can help you if he holds onto your hips and guides you in circles.

    Free Play -- While you're rocking up and down or side to side, you can put your man's hands on your breasts, which always feels fantastic.

    Adjusting -- Be careful about moving too forcefully -- you don't want to bend him uncomfortably. And be prepared to have him occasionally pop out of position. Simply put him back inside and keep going.

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    Practice Makes Perfect -- Just like anything else, the woman-on-top position requires some practice before you get it right. But once you do, you may never want to go back!

    Any other tips for mastering the woman-on-top sex position?

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    Written by Aunt Becky on CafeMom's blog, The Stir.

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    19 comments

    • Andrea  •  Boynton Beach, Florida  •  3 months ago
      This article would have been a great read for me when I was 18, but being 39...if I'm not doing it right by now then HOUSTON we have a problem lol.
      • Jaslath 3 months ago
        Lol. Of course, considering that some women even at 39 still haven't had an orgasm........shrug
      • Frank 3 months ago
        Even at 18, I am sure it wouldn't take to long to figure out. It's all just various ways to get Tab-A into Slot-B, Tab-B into Slot-A, however you want to look at it.
      • Andrea 3 months ago
        That's always been my favorite position for obvious reasons. However, I think you're both correct lol.
    • Stephen  •  Atlanta, Georgia  •  3 months ago
      This is still one of my favorite positions for obvious reasons. I think Aunt Becky made a slight error, lol " for support, lower yourself so you're inside him." I think she meant until he is inside you? Just a minor detail.
      • the.doRk 3 months ago
        haha! i didn't even notice that until you pointed it out. *gasp. is aunt becky actually uncle becky? :)
      • Jaslath 3 months ago
        Thanks, Stephen. Now I'm going to have nightmares tonight.
      • Frank 3 months ago
        Is that anatomically possible with him on his back?!
    • Mike  •  Mt Prospect, Illinois  •  3 months ago
      Personally I've never enjoyed a woman on top, I only do it so she can get hers! They always make weird moves, which really don't feel good to me at least! and then they look at you , like you should be in heaven, and I'm concentrating on staying hard for you! I'm not happy in the passenger seat. this ride sucks! I like rodeo!
      • Andrea 3 months ago
        LMAO. Maybe she's not doing enough to give you a visual. Have her lean back so you can watch your magic stick slide in and out of her. If that doesn't keep you happy then I'm lost lol.
      • Peta Gaye 3 months ago
        really now maybe u dont like sex
      • Mike 3 months ago
        @Andrea yeah maybe, but it still don't rub me right. When she's on top im half in and half out when im on top were down to the balls! lol!
        @Peta Gaye I like sex, but I like it allot more when I'm in control because then I'm in control of what's feeling good to me! woman on top its like a joke
    • Wicked Sister  •  3 months ago
      Ha.... Wow. I should have known better than to read this article. The "Ride 'em Cowgirl" position isn't particularly complicated. I don't know why I thought I would find some value in reading this rubbish.
    • Maggie  •  Harrisburg, Pennsylvania  •  3 months ago
      Astonishingly, I've actually come across women who are pretty naive and inexperienced in the bedroom. -everyone- is inexperienced until they read up on it, or spend numerous hours in the bedroom experimenting. I thinking reading up on it is way more efficient.
      That said; I prefer the backward cowgirl (facing his feet) and the Italian chandelier. In this position, feel free to put your legs between his, it also allows you to easily bring a small toy into the equation. It's like baking. Would you prefer fumbling around with out the perfect double layer chocolate cake with perfect icing, and waste many hours wasting time? Reading/discussing seems the logical answer.

      The article is poorly written, though!
    • Phil  •  Phoenix, Arizona  •  3 months ago
      Well now, there's a thought, practice makes perfect!
    • TCBFlame  •  Louisville, Kentucky  •  3 months ago
      "lower yourself so you're inside him."? how do I do that, exactly?

      Was this written by a man for men who like to be with men? Maybe the headline was mixed up.
      • HappyTime 3 months ago
        Wow I had to re-read that 3 times but I get it now. Lmao! Omg.
    • Amanda  •  Traverse City, Michigan  •  3 months ago
      "lower yourself so you're inside him" He normally goes inside of me, but I guess we can make it kinky.
    • brian  •  3 months ago
      Women get on top?
      • Wicked Sister 3 months ago
        I do.... but only because he likes it so much. But then again, anything he wants, he gets. ;) Isn't that how it should be???
    • Red Hornet  •  3 months ago
      So, her on top, me inside and move? Wow, that's interesting, we will have to try that one.
    • roger  •  3 months ago
      Gee this one is real difficult. Personally I pick the Cheshire up sit her on top, spank the little man in the boat a couple of times, then just hang on for dear life...
    • Indira  •  Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia  •  3 months ago
      ....or just watch some real porn
    • amikay23  •  Boise, Idaho  •  3 months ago
      Okay, if a woman does not know how to be on top, there is something wrong with her. It is not rocket science.
    • Valerina  •  3 months ago
      once on top, and everything is in "position", he leans forward and you prop 2 pillow under his back. now he leans back and you lean forward, placeing his mouth JUST in line with, well, he can now move his hands to your #$%$ :)
    • anonymous  •  Lorain, Ohio  •  3 months ago
      I have only one word to apply to this article--EDITOR! Not editing your posts makes you look like complete idiots, people. And who in the ^&%$ can't figure out how to do this position anyway? Let's find something interesting to talk about, huh?
    • Sierra S  •  Seattle, Washington  •  3 months ago
      It's sex, not rocket science. If it feels good then you're doing it right. Geez, people.
    • George Jetson  •  3 months ago
      I like them sunny side up, over easy, and every other kind of way there is. just give to me.give it to me now.uh- oh calm down george.
    • NeikosGirl  •  3 months ago
      Like who needed a "demonstration" on how to do this? Shouldn't this be a common sense thing? Oh, and the proper phrase was. "Lower yourself until he's inside YOU", not lower yourself until your inside him. Major Typo there. Maybe this person doesn't have a freakin clue as to What they are talking about! lol. Why are they even making stupid articles such as this.... This is something you pretty much already know how to do without having someone "explian" it.
    • Mike  •  Mt Prospect, Illinois  •  3 months ago
      how come when I'm on top I can slam it home to the balls but when you get up there I'm only half in #$%$ everytime! keep this #$%$ up I'm gonna start faking it!

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