Meeting up with my Ex Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Wife, Husband - How To Get Them Back
Originally at the time I first broke up with my ex, I always asked myself how to get my ex back and began reading lots of books and guides on advice and helping relationships. That's what most people do. Now, there are many guides and advice out there to show you what to do but not share with you their experience on how they got they ex back. So, I will set my guide or advice in a different viewpoint from the others out there - I will share with you how I got my ex back.
Parenthetically, if you are asking who instigated the break up, it was my ex lover that broke up with me. However, I was the unwilling person and I still wanted my ex back seriously. At first I began to plead and started to feel all sad and pathetic in front of my ex hoping my ex will accept me back out of pity or sympathy but that only drove my ex further away from me. Therefore, I went to find out what I can do and I want to show you the steps I took:
1) I had to limit contact with my ex only for a while. I read few of books on how to get my ex back and the one thing that was harmony in all books was to limit all forms of contact with my ex for a while which was what I did. It's supposed to be a psychological trick. For about a week I totally did not contact my ex and when my ex was to call sometimes, I told my ex that I was busy and cannot attend to certain matters at that time.
2) The next thing I did was to begin taking up hobbies and a friend of mine who knew my ex too told my ex that I was taking up gym workouts. I told this common friend of ours that I made so many new friends that were so nice to me and began asking me out for dinner and other. I knew that this friend of ours would eventually let my ex know what's happening in my life and my activities.
3) The Next thing I did was to go on lots of dates with admirers and again told my friend about it. All of a sudden my ex would start to call me and start asking what I'm up to. I just said "dates" and quickly hung up the phone without saying anymore.
4) Not long afterwards, my ex finally asked whether we could get back together again and give the relationship another chance. Can you guess what I said? I told my ex that I would think about it and made myself kind of hard to get. My ex couldn't believe what was going on and would then constantly start to call me and start talking to me and being nice to me. Well, after another week passed, my ex asked me again about hanging out and I agreed.
Presently, I am still together with my ex and I do hope you can use my experience in your relationship as well. Or better still you can click on the links I have provided at the Author's Bio or "About the Author" below that will take you to relationship experts who give solution to reconciling with an ex lover.