My so-called sex life: Sex with Mr. Big

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I like BIG appendages because I like the way that it makes me feel Full! Also many women or men cant handle a large appendage so those need someone too!

I dated a guy who has a huge body structure, tall and also a big heart but he also had a size problem. He is small, probably the smallest I've seen in my life. He tries to compensate for it by being super nice but sexually I wasn't satisfied. I know most of you would say that size doesn't really matter and I would have agreed with you if I hadn't met this guy. I'm not saying I like them super sized but I think moderate would do wonders compared to small.

I fell in love with a wonderful woman and sex was the last thing we thought about. We know that it is an extra bonus in our relationship.Size doesn't matter it's the connection you have with your partner.

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Our biology determines our requirments for mating! Weather we like it or not! And a big strong powerful man is what our biology tells us will protect and provide security! Someone that will bring home the meat man:) give us stong healthy children! We have no control! I fell in love! Yes literally in love with a horrible guy because he was 6'5"! That's all he had! And a super large appendage:) I had the hardest time breaking up with him too! I went thru withdraw! I'm a very smart girl and I couldn't believe I was involved with a guy I knew was a loser! Even worse I can't even stomach small guys anymore! The guys I've been chasing now are atleast 6'!!! The taller the better! Our biology reminds us all we are nothing but animals trying to survive no matter how much technology and education!

Hi, Andrea. I always enjoy your posts. I am currently with a very large guy, physically, 6-foot-two and about 250 lbs. I so was NOT looking for a relationship with such a 'heavy-set' fella. I usually go for a smaller man, my last was five-foot-six and 160 lbs. However, this man knows how to please me in every way - I am just so glad that I decided to go with this beautiful, large man! By the way, the size of his 'package' is 'average', about six-and-half inches and we are a perfect fit together. I have had much larger, and much smaller, and in my opinion, the best is the medium-sized. Too big, it hurts. Too small, I am, like, "where is it?" Thanks for a great post!

Chevygirl - Well I agree with you. Sure, a huge appendage is great and all. But what you are describing about his other attributes is more important. Anyone who says a big schlong does it all either is very one-dimensional or has very short lived relationships. It simply, in a spiritual relationship between two people, with so much more than just sex, cannot be all there is. No more than large breasts on a woman. They're awesome. Hooray for the big boobed girls. But what happens after babies, or God forbid breast cancer? Are they no longer more attractive because they're physicalness took a dive? Some guys might say, "Yeah, not cute anymore." And that's fine. But that's not the kind of man I'd want. Not for marriage. Not for a relationship.

Everyone, I'm not commenting anymore on this thread, but feel free to add.

Any references to deep throating or overtly obnoxious language will be cut not just here but in all my columns. I love talking about sex in the context of marriage, relationship, etc. But out and out porn - not my column. Sorry!

Size does matter to a certain degree. I do like to know that IT is actually there, but not so big that I cannot even wrap my thumb and index finger around it! I am most comfortable with a little over the average (which I have read is 5") not twice that! That's way more than I care to handle!

I will take a man with big love and an even bigger heart anyday over the big "goods". Been there, did that - didn't walk for a week - kinda overrated actually. God bless the woman that can handle it and I laugh at the ones that think that bigger is better(generally the ones that think so haven't had the "pleasure" of handling one). Just give me a big ole' guy with a big' ole smile and I will be happier than a clam!

a big heart id pick if i had to choose but both are nice .

Men with understanding and compassion are great, but seriously the physical is what every woman looks for. I have been single (again) for going on 5 years. I have had one serious (to me) relationship and am in a new one now. The first one I think was the love of my life (to me) and he was niether extra large or extra small. Now the guy I am seeing is a normal size and he too is just what I am looking for. He is kind and sweet and tells me the truth, (18 years with a cheater makes you skeptical and alittle perinod) his package is normal size and I am fine with it, it is not just about sex, it is about the way one person makes the other person feel, in bed and out. My suggestion is look inside and not at the outer person, you find better things.

I like your point Jon...LoL
It's always the personality, the confidence and most of all the performance.hahaa(--,)

Keep moving forward *wink*

Tommy R, not only is no one interested in deep throating your 10 inch, but you're ten seconds of fame is about to go away. If you can't think with the big head, big guy, then find another column.

Ed - You rock. Thank you.

Its not the size that matters,just knowing how to use what was given to you.

I think Confidence is a big part of it. I'm 4'11 and tend to fall for guys who are 6 feet. Strangely enough though my boyfriend is only 5'4 hehe. But yeah a man who is big in life usually has the confidence which is what attracts us. I like a man who believes in himself, can mentally support me, and who's independant, and also I like to feel protected in the man's arms. So taller guys always seem to fit that bill for the most part.

yes i want to know is it ok to be with a man who u know is messing with someone else but he keeps telling u that he is not with no one, but he does not want to do anything with me out side the house and i have never allowed this in the past he is wow so good in the bed. he tells me in so many ways that he does not wont to be in a sericus relationship he does not want that lable right, but i dont know how to let go it's been six months now. he want kiss me or do four play on me ,but he wants me to do four play on him. i want him to make me feel good also. should i let go or just go with the flow. i do want to be in an relationship with him so bad and i guess im hopeing he would see how much i care for him that i have fallen in love with him and i want to be with him and him only.

What about if they're "average" length, a little less than average width, and there is hardly no motion (u know, hard core f*@*ing), but the personality is out of this world? The kind of sex to where a couple days after sex ur kind of no longer interested, but then after a few more days of awesome conversation, u find ur self back crazy about him? Do you stick it out, or let it go???????

size?boy~howdy did i ever worry if i could please my partner.because to me i did not feel as if i had the stones to make it go. i'd seen what was out there and knew they were my competition in the friendly sense and lots women go for mister big and always will be tempted when the choice is presented. but you know in the end it really doesn't matter the way in which you might think it does. its the chemistry that makes magic happen and once thats in play,'' LA~LA ~LAND here we are !!"i have been mildly surprised when i was cooed at for just doing what came natural. so i know what big is and i also know that i'm more than big enough. i don't mean to insult anybody but i believe the only thing that needs a freak is...another freak...now lets get freaky!

huge confidence is the only HUGE i need in my life !
its not the size of it that matters its wether or not the person can work it !
and i am totally happy with it !